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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 761284" data-attributes="member: 4152"><p>Thank you very much Wish. I found out when she did something like this once before. But we were able to negotiate with the girl. She had a relative from her home state that was willing to step in and help and bought her and her baby a plane ticket home. We only had to get a taxi, a baby car seat and give her a little food money. It was terrible ble and stressful , but I never endured the full extent of this horror as I am now. And yes, most people seem to have NO idea of this squatter law.</p><p></p><p>You said:</p><p>“After all this is done and over with, your daughter should be crawling on her hands and knees begging for your forgiveness and doing everything possible to get herself help. “</p><p></p><p>No. That’s not happening at all. Originally, we had a different plan when this was over with more help to her. When she did not show the appropriate response / remorse and wished us dead, that changed. She hasn’t even commented on the nice neighbors who are terrified. I semi understand that due to (possible) embarrassment. But it’s all sick. Especially the way she is treating us. It’s disturbing.</p><p></p><p>And I understand now that she is sicker than I ever dreamed. We have shock coming from both ends. That she is behaving this way and we are in such a bind with the condo.</p><p></p><p>They now have five days to vacate. They are to contact our attorneys office. We don’t think their cell phone is working as they tried to pay for it with the cash card they stole from daughter.</p><p></p><p>Things could really change if they don’t respond. Fingers crossed.</p><p></p><p>Otherwise we go to the next step (s) all of which creates delays snd is unfair to us.</p><p></p><p>But of course we are doing our best and will take advice of legal counsel.</p><p></p><p>They are violent with long rap sheet (s) including felony’s and it looks like one or both are drug addicts.</p><p></p><p>We have limited our support to our daughter to cell phone and some MINOR things related to medical care and forwarding disability money to a legit landlord so she has a roof over her head. We prefer to speak with her once a month. Only as absolutely necessary. We are greatly pulling back. We don’t care what she does. She usually takes her medications regularly. But she is too old and too difficult fir us to worry about any of this. If it worsens we likely will detach further. Big push and desire to speak with her only as needed…again perhaps once a month. We are in shock, tired and DONE.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 761284, member: 4152"] Thank you very much Wish. I found out when she did something like this once before. But we were able to negotiate with the girl. She had a relative from her home state that was willing to step in and help and bought her and her baby a plane ticket home. We only had to get a taxi, a baby car seat and give her a little food money. It was terrible ble and stressful , but I never endured the full extent of this horror as I am now. And yes, most people seem to have NO idea of this squatter law. You said: “After all this is done and over with, your daughter should be crawling on her hands and knees begging for your forgiveness and doing everything possible to get herself help. “ No. That’s not happening at all. Originally, we had a different plan when this was over with more help to her. When she did not show the appropriate response / remorse and wished us dead, that changed. She hasn’t even commented on the nice neighbors who are terrified. I semi understand that due to (possible) embarrassment. But it’s all sick. Especially the way she is treating us. It’s disturbing. And I understand now that she is sicker than I ever dreamed. We have shock coming from both ends. That she is behaving this way and we are in such a bind with the condo. They now have five days to vacate. They are to contact our attorneys office. We don’t think their cell phone is working as they tried to pay for it with the cash card they stole from daughter. Things could really change if they don’t respond. Fingers crossed. Otherwise we go to the next step (s) all of which creates delays snd is unfair to us. But of course we are doing our best and will take advice of legal counsel. They are violent with long rap sheet (s) including felony’s and it looks like one or both are drug addicts. We have limited our support to our daughter to cell phone and some MINOR things related to medical care and forwarding disability money to a legit landlord so she has a roof over her head. We prefer to speak with her once a month. Only as absolutely necessary. We are greatly pulling back. We don’t care what she does. She usually takes her medications regularly. But she is too old and too difficult fir us to worry about any of this. If it worsens we likely will detach further. Big push and desire to speak with her only as needed…again perhaps once a month. We are in shock, tired and DONE. [/QUOTE]
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