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<blockquote data-quote="overstressed" data-source="post: 648362" data-attributes="member: 18709"><p>Hi, all had been quiet for a while with my son until last night. Around 9:30 the calls started, I ignored the them until he called his mom. He never calls her because she don't listen to any of his bullcrap and tells him like it is. So we answered, them was an episode of some sort with the friends he was staying with and the told him he needed to find somewhere else to stay. He wanted me to come pick him up and let him stay at our house, i said no. He saye=s he's standing out in the rain with no where else to go, I tell him even though it breaks the no contact order I would take him to the shelter. That was when his 17yo girlfriend gets on the phone and starts telling me how good he's been doing, not doing drugs, going to church ect. I tell her that it's going to take more than a couple of weeks to repair our bond after what happened the last time i saw him and that I've heard all of this before and I'm not going through it or putting the rest of my family through it anymore. She says that he doesn't care about the rest of the family but just me, that I was his best friend and he wants our relationship back, that he's crying like a baby ect. Then when I still refuse she commences to tell me what a real piece of sh%t I am for treating my son like I have and that maybe if he were my son (remember he's adopted) I would treat him like I do my daughter, who is an Honor roll student and has never been in trouble of any kind. That hurt. How big of a lowlife I am an so on. Then she hangs up and I haven't heard from them since. Now the problem is that this girl goes to school with my daughter and has several classes with her and I am afraid she will try to start something. My daughter was asleep when all this happened last night so I didn't get to let her know what was going on but I ask my wife to tell her that if his girlfriend tried to start any drama to just walk away and try to avoid her. What else can I do?</p><p>Stressed</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="overstressed, post: 648362, member: 18709"] Hi, all had been quiet for a while with my son until last night. Around 9:30 the calls started, I ignored the them until he called his mom. He never calls her because she don't listen to any of his bullcrap and tells him like it is. So we answered, them was an episode of some sort with the friends he was staying with and the told him he needed to find somewhere else to stay. He wanted me to come pick him up and let him stay at our house, i said no. He saye=s he's standing out in the rain with no where else to go, I tell him even though it breaks the no contact order I would take him to the shelter. That was when his 17yo girlfriend gets on the phone and starts telling me how good he's been doing, not doing drugs, going to church ect. I tell her that it's going to take more than a couple of weeks to repair our bond after what happened the last time i saw him and that I've heard all of this before and I'm not going through it or putting the rest of my family through it anymore. She says that he doesn't care about the rest of the family but just me, that I was his best friend and he wants our relationship back, that he's crying like a baby ect. Then when I still refuse she commences to tell me what a real piece of sh%t I am for treating my son like I have and that maybe if he were my son (remember he's adopted) I would treat him like I do my daughter, who is an Honor roll student and has never been in trouble of any kind. That hurt. How big of a lowlife I am an so on. Then she hangs up and I haven't heard from them since. Now the problem is that this girl goes to school with my daughter and has several classes with her and I am afraid she will try to start something. My daughter was asleep when all this happened last night so I didn't get to let her know what was going on but I ask my wife to tell her that if his girlfriend tried to start any drama to just walk away and try to avoid her. What else can I do? Stressed [/QUOTE]
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