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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 711103" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Your marriage has serious problems. I would start by taking some real, concrete steps to protect your property from this boy. I would put locks on anything you value that he could destroy, ones that your wife does not have access to. She won't keep him out and she won't make him take care of them, so you need to take concrete steps to protect your tools, especially if you earn a living with them. If you must, rent a storage unit and don't tell her where or put her name on it. Don't even show her where or keep the bills at home. Keep all of your tools and valuables there, away from this young man. </p><p></p><p>Get counseling with your wife. Go alone if you have to. Go al anon or narcanon and talk about things. Work the program along with going to counseling - it really does help, I promise. It might not seem like it at first, but it really does help a lot of people if they stick with it.</p><p></p><p>I would have a serious problem with a marriage to a person who treated me with so little respect, who spoke to me the way your wife speaks to you. Her behavior sounds more abusive. I would encourage you to not stay if she cannot treat you with true respect and love.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 711103, member: 1233"] Your marriage has serious problems. I would start by taking some real, concrete steps to protect your property from this boy. I would put locks on anything you value that he could destroy, ones that your wife does not have access to. She won't keep him out and she won't make him take care of them, so you need to take concrete steps to protect your tools, especially if you earn a living with them. If you must, rent a storage unit and don't tell her where or put her name on it. Don't even show her where or keep the bills at home. Keep all of your tools and valuables there, away from this young man. Get counseling with your wife. Go alone if you have to. Go al anon or narcanon and talk about things. Work the program along with going to counseling - it really does help, I promise. It might not seem like it at first, but it really does help a lot of people if they stick with it. I would have a serious problem with a marriage to a person who treated me with so little respect, who spoke to me the way your wife speaks to you. Her behavior sounds more abusive. I would encourage you to not stay if she cannot treat you with true respect and love. [/QUOTE]
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