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Still don't know if she's going in to marines...
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 722016" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>ksm. she put this plan in effect. all you did was support her.</p><p></p><p>the importat thing for me, and hard, is that when things fall apart or require purpose and motivation and action to sustain--not to feel it is my role to myself look for solution and remedy.</p><p></p><p>i got a text from my son this morning saying he would call at 11am (not), that despite improved circumstances he still felt sad. so we, he and i, have trained us to believe the remedy to his ill feeling is located inside of me: what i do or do not say or do. or what i feel.</p><p></p><p>more to the point he likes to share his troubles with me so as to feel less. great.</p><p></p><p>i told m who said just tell him to work. that's as good an answer as any.</p><p></p><p>boundaries. that needs to be my magic word.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 722016, member: 18958"] ksm. she put this plan in effect. all you did was support her. the importat thing for me, and hard, is that when things fall apart or require purpose and motivation and action to sustain--not to feel it is my role to myself look for solution and remedy. i got a text from my son this morning saying he would call at 11am (not), that despite improved circumstances he still felt sad. so we, he and i, have trained us to believe the remedy to his ill feeling is located inside of me: what i do or do not say or do. or what i feel. more to the point he likes to share his troubles with me so as to feel less. great. i told m who said just tell him to work. that's as good an answer as any. boundaries. that needs to be my magic word. [/QUOTE]
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