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<blockquote data-quote="Heartbroken mom" data-source="post: 739122" data-attributes="member: 22697"><p>updating</p><p>My 42 year old son who is currently in a shelter </p><p>But has found a job</p><p>And has been on medication for major depression he also has other personality disorders </p><p>Is currently looking for a new job as the shelter is helping him find a room they work towards independence for the shelter people </p><p>He is moving forward but asks ne for money all the time</p><p>He has been enabled for 12 years by other family member who is now deceased</p><p></p><p>Long story </p><p>The growth is my own</p><p>I have held strongly to boundaries that previously I would not have been able to do and everytime I hold them </p><p>He does end up showing up for himself</p><p>But just last night after going off his medications</p><p>He sent me a rant awful blaming major fog stuff</p><p></p><p>I was able to go back to sleep get up exercise and not let it spoil a special time with my daughter </p><p></p><p>I told him what he was doing and that I wouldn’t take it anymore</p><p></p><p>He apologized but I kept and am keeping my boundaries </p><p></p><p>Then this am he is back to job search</p><p></p><p>All the posts here have helped me gain the strength and perspectives I’ve needed </p><p></p><p>Refocused the love to myself</p><p></p><p>He once again has to find his way </p><p></p><p>And I remain at peace</p><p></p><p>Thank you all</p><p></p><p>I don’t write much but read here all the time and gain such wisdom</p><p></p><p>Praying he continues to move his life in a better direction </p><p>Knowing the old story doesn’t work anymore and I am caring for myself first</p><p></p><p>It feels good!!</p><p></p><p>When the spell is broken all that’s left is love</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Heartbroken mom, post: 739122, member: 22697"] updating My 42 year old son who is currently in a shelter But has found a job And has been on medication for major depression he also has other personality disorders Is currently looking for a new job as the shelter is helping him find a room they work towards independence for the shelter people He is moving forward but asks ne for money all the time He has been enabled for 12 years by other family member who is now deceased Long story The growth is my own I have held strongly to boundaries that previously I would not have been able to do and everytime I hold them He does end up showing up for himself But just last night after going off his medications He sent me a rant awful blaming major fog stuff I was able to go back to sleep get up exercise and not let it spoil a special time with my daughter I told him what he was doing and that I wouldn’t take it anymore He apologized but I kept and am keeping my boundaries Then this am he is back to job search All the posts here have helped me gain the strength and perspectives I’ve needed Refocused the love to myself He once again has to find his way And I remain at peace Thank you all I don’t write much but read here all the time and gain such wisdom Praying he continues to move his life in a better direction Knowing the old story doesn’t work anymore and I am caring for myself first It feels good!! When the spell is broken all that’s left is love [/QUOTE]
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