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<blockquote data-quote="Bunny" data-source="post: 602536" data-attributes="member: 15810"><p>Hello, and welcome to the board. I think many of us have spent time on the Internet looking for a nice farm to send out kiddos to. </p><p></p><p>The one thing that I would say is that spanking is not going to do any good. I'm not one of those moms who think that a child should never be spanked, because for some kids it is effective, but for kids like ours, the difficult child kids, not only is it not a effective form of punishment, but it can actually escalate things way out of control because in their minds they have been "attacked" and they will fight back. Been there, done that, had the bruises to prove it.</p><p></p><p>I don't know alot about attachment disorders. From what I have read about them, it is VERY hard to parent a child with an attachment disorder because they have not bonded with their caregivers the way other, more typical kids, have. If all possible, I would not leave your step daughter alone with him. You never know when he will act out against her.</p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/smile.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":smile:" title="smile :smile:" data-shortname=":smile:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Bunny, post: 602536, member: 15810"] Hello, and welcome to the board. I think many of us have spent time on the Internet looking for a nice farm to send out kiddos to. The one thing that I would say is that spanking is not going to do any good. I'm not one of those moms who think that a child should never be spanked, because for some kids it is effective, but for kids like ours, the difficult child kids, not only is it not a effective form of punishment, but it can actually escalate things way out of control because in their minds they have been "attacked" and they will fight back. Been there, done that, had the bruises to prove it. I don't know alot about attachment disorders. From what I have read about them, it is VERY hard to parent a child with an attachment disorder because they have not bonded with their caregivers the way other, more typical kids, have. If all possible, I would not leave your step daughter alone with him. You never know when he will act out against her. :smile: [/QUOTE]
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