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<blockquote data-quote="Mother-1" data-source="post: 765059" data-attributes="member: 33258"><p>[USER=25457]@Fairy dust[/USER] - thank you so much for replying. Immediately moved to tears which I’ve not done since this happened. I so badly want him to reach out so I can help fix and rescue. Partly because I want him happy, healthy and functional but I also know I’m seeking his validation and that he loves me and needs me. I know he’s not ready for that. I just don’t know if he’ll ever speak to me again and from being the main constant in his life for 19 years, that’s painful. We see our children as a direct reflection of us and I feel like i must’ve messed up badly for him to have turned out the way he has. He’s so cruel and lacks empathy and I find how he treats me, his girlfriend and friends quite repulsive it’s hard to understand this is a child of mine.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mother-1, post: 765059, member: 33258"] [USER=25457]@Fairy dust[/USER] - thank you so much for replying. Immediately moved to tears which I’ve not done since this happened. I so badly want him to reach out so I can help fix and rescue. Partly because I want him happy, healthy and functional but I also know I’m seeking his validation and that he loves me and needs me. I know he’s not ready for that. I just don’t know if he’ll ever speak to me again and from being the main constant in his life for 19 years, that’s painful. We see our children as a direct reflection of us and I feel like i must’ve messed up badly for him to have turned out the way he has. He’s so cruel and lacks empathy and I find how he treats me, his girlfriend and friends quite repulsive it’s hard to understand this is a child of mine. [/QUOTE]
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