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I try desperately to control outcomes, prepare for outcomes that aren’t within my control. I feel like I’ve got to be doing something about this, taking action in some way. I’ve read this is part of codependency. The fog as described here does clear though, I have the clarity to see that I don't get to write my son’s story. It think it was you Copa who said that my son doesn’t have to live the life I expect of him. My eyes are beginning to open and I’m beginning to see things from a different perspective. I know im on my own journey and changing my mindset won’t happen overnight, I’ve got some healing to do.