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<blockquote data-quote="LauraH" data-source="post: 759523" data-attributes="member: 22877"><p>Update: My son sounds good and a little less delusional every day, though some of his delusions persist. I have decided to take a back seat in this and be a cheerleader for him and a sounding board for his partner. My heart breaks for that poor man. As of now he has agreed to go to rehab when he is discharged, and his partner has laid some strict boundaries down regarding him coming back into his house. He may file criminal charges, depending on the extent of the damage once he has cleaned his apartment and assessed everything. That remains to be seen. But he is not welcome at his partner's home until he has completed rehab and stayed at a sober living or halfway house and also must agree...and follow through...with ongoing outpatient therapy. This is all unchartered territory for the partner and I am proud of the way he is handling the situation. He's not ready to throw their relationship away but at the same time it cannot resume after only three days of psychiatric stabilization and nothing to prevent it from happening again. He has been at my son's side through a lot of chaos caused by his psycho ex and I believe this relationship may have a chance to rebuild and survive. But if it doesn't, my son has only himself to blame. Right now he's fragile and getting the kid glove treatment, so to speak, but as soon as he is stable and nondelusional he must and will be held accountable for the devastation he has caused. What form that accountability will take is anybody's guess at this point. But that's mostly between my son and his partner. And like last time, my son absolutely has to own all of this, but I place a significant amount of blame on the shoulders of the ex as well. I don't know if mentioned this already, but right before Christmas there was a package left at their door that contained a small amount of meth and a pipe. The Ring video showed someone walking up, setting the package down, and walking away. He was wearing a jacket with the Amazon logo on it but it was clearly a fake and you could tell that the lettering was taped to the jacket, not embossed or printed. For anyone who knows him, it is clearly the ex but he was concealed enough that it couldn't be proven in a court of law. I know that that small amount of meth was what got the ball rolling to this point. I hope I never see the ex face to face, because I might just end up in prison. (I doubt I would ever see him and I doubt I would do anything that would land me in prison, but as angry as I am with him, there is no guarantee of that)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="LauraH, post: 759523, member: 22877"] Update: My son sounds good and a little less delusional every day, though some of his delusions persist. I have decided to take a back seat in this and be a cheerleader for him and a sounding board for his partner. My heart breaks for that poor man. As of now he has agreed to go to rehab when he is discharged, and his partner has laid some strict boundaries down regarding him coming back into his house. He may file criminal charges, depending on the extent of the damage once he has cleaned his apartment and assessed everything. That remains to be seen. But he is not welcome at his partner's home until he has completed rehab and stayed at a sober living or halfway house and also must agree...and follow through...with ongoing outpatient therapy. This is all unchartered territory for the partner and I am proud of the way he is handling the situation. He's not ready to throw their relationship away but at the same time it cannot resume after only three days of psychiatric stabilization and nothing to prevent it from happening again. He has been at my son's side through a lot of chaos caused by his psycho ex and I believe this relationship may have a chance to rebuild and survive. But if it doesn't, my son has only himself to blame. Right now he's fragile and getting the kid glove treatment, so to speak, but as soon as he is stable and nondelusional he must and will be held accountable for the devastation he has caused. What form that accountability will take is anybody's guess at this point. But that's mostly between my son and his partner. And like last time, my son absolutely has to own all of this, but I place a significant amount of blame on the shoulders of the ex as well. I don't know if mentioned this already, but right before Christmas there was a package left at their door that contained a small amount of meth and a pipe. The Ring video showed someone walking up, setting the package down, and walking away. He was wearing a jacket with the Amazon logo on it but it was clearly a fake and you could tell that the lettering was taped to the jacket, not embossed or printed. For anyone who knows him, it is clearly the ex but he was concealed enough that it couldn't be proven in a court of law. I know that that small amount of meth was what got the ball rolling to this point. I hope I never see the ex face to face, because I might just end up in prison. (I doubt I would ever see him and I doubt I would do anything that would land me in prison, but as angry as I am with him, there is no guarantee of that) [/QUOTE]
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