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Talked to husband last night. Ideas? Thoughts? Am I expecting too much?
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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 418668" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>No I do, Susie. It's gone on way too long. He was never perfect but it has gotten progressively worse and you are right the past couple years, maybe slightly longer, have been like this. </p><p></p><p>The only slight difference being when I asked for help, he used to do it. Now, it's a maybe at best and it WON'T happen until he's done watching tv at midnight.</p><p></p><p>That line of thinking just gave me a bit more hope about the situation. That's fixable. If husband thinks this Is the way marriage works and sees nothing to fix, well, that's not fixable.</p><p></p><p>The difference I see now? I'm not capable of carrying the load I did before, and I don't know if I will ever get back to a point that I am. And now that I have seen just how deep this runs (ie how little he did when I was truly down), I am seriously bucking idea of falling back into that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 418668, member: 1848"] No I do, Susie. It's gone on way too long. He was never perfect but it has gotten progressively worse and you are right the past couple years, maybe slightly longer, have been like this. The only slight difference being when I asked for help, he used to do it. Now, it's a maybe at best and it WON'T happen until he's done watching tv at midnight. That line of thinking just gave me a bit more hope about the situation. That's fixable. If husband thinks this Is the way marriage works and sees nothing to fix, well, that's not fixable. The difference I see now? I'm not capable of carrying the load I did before, and I don't know if I will ever get back to a point that I am. And now that I have seen just how deep this runs (ie how little he did when I was truly down), I am seriously bucking idea of falling back into that. [/QUOTE]
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