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Teen ran away (again) ... should I call police?
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 287837" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>WOW! I am amazed and impressed that you haven't run screaming from the hills yet! Surely it is too much for your husband to ask that you risk your kids safety by keeping her in the house. If you need to be a family of different addresses, I hope it works. Make sure you have regular "date" time and that NOTHING difficult child does interferes with it. </p><p></p><p>With the list of drugs she has tried that you know of, I would assume she has also tried cocaine or heroin. usually when they can't get an easy supply of prescription drugs they try heroin or crack or meth because it is cheaper. And easier to get. So I would just assume she is using them.</p><p></p><p>If they think she is pregnant with their child, WHY would these guys supply her with booze, cigarettes or drugs of ANY kind??? I am sure she is asking them too, or for cash so she can go buy drugs. Surely they have seen enough ads with the risk of whatevers to the unborn child that tehy know it is certain that teh baby will be damaged if she uses anything. </p><p></p><p>I think you need to protect YOUR children from this difficult child. She is NOT a risk they should ahve to cope with. They have enough problems, just being kids, they do NOT need to deal with her. I am SURE she is hateful to them, and says scary things about what she is doing and what she wants to do to you. You will ONLY find out the extent of what she has done and said to them and around them AFTER you free them from her grasp. They won't tell you the worst things because they are afraid of her (if they have any sense) and her retaliation. Until you recognize this, and see that she is a FAR greater risk to your childrens' safety, you won't have a clue as to the extent of what difficult child is doing/saying. </p><p></p><p>SAVE YOUR KIDS. It is ALL you can do. If husband thinks setting up a separate home for her will help, then encourage him to try. Just don't let your children pay for his child's illness. Insist that husband help difficult child by getting her into a long term facility or by having her live at moms and do whatever mom can get her to do. Just take the craziness away from your kids.</p><p></p><p>As I said in another thread: Don't sacrifice your kids on the altar of his child's mental illness.</p><p></p><p>sending hugs and strength to you!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 287837, member: 1233"] WOW! I am amazed and impressed that you haven't run screaming from the hills yet! Surely it is too much for your husband to ask that you risk your kids safety by keeping her in the house. If you need to be a family of different addresses, I hope it works. Make sure you have regular "date" time and that NOTHING difficult child does interferes with it. With the list of drugs she has tried that you know of, I would assume she has also tried cocaine or heroin. usually when they can't get an easy supply of prescription drugs they try heroin or crack or meth because it is cheaper. And easier to get. So I would just assume she is using them. If they think she is pregnant with their child, WHY would these guys supply her with booze, cigarettes or drugs of ANY kind??? I am sure she is asking them too, or for cash so she can go buy drugs. Surely they have seen enough ads with the risk of whatevers to the unborn child that tehy know it is certain that teh baby will be damaged if she uses anything. I think you need to protect YOUR children from this difficult child. She is NOT a risk they should ahve to cope with. They have enough problems, just being kids, they do NOT need to deal with her. I am SURE she is hateful to them, and says scary things about what she is doing and what she wants to do to you. You will ONLY find out the extent of what she has done and said to them and around them AFTER you free them from her grasp. They won't tell you the worst things because they are afraid of her (if they have any sense) and her retaliation. Until you recognize this, and see that she is a FAR greater risk to your childrens' safety, you won't have a clue as to the extent of what difficult child is doing/saying. SAVE YOUR KIDS. It is ALL you can do. If husband thinks setting up a separate home for her will help, then encourage him to try. Just don't let your children pay for his child's illness. Insist that husband help difficult child by getting her into a long term facility or by having her live at moms and do whatever mom can get her to do. Just take the craziness away from your kids. As I said in another thread: Don't sacrifice your kids on the altar of his child's mental illness. sending hugs and strength to you! [/QUOTE]
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