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<blockquote data-quote="ANewLife4Me" data-source="post: 765464" data-attributes="member: 32799"><p>Thank you my friend! I do believe we would get along so well as we share a lot in common. <img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="🤗" title="Hugging face :hugging:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/6.6/png/unicode/64/1f917.png" data-shortname=":hugging:" /> I am screaming here though at the idea of putting up a house for him on your property, I almost did it too. Since he does receive money from SS at least he has that for a start. But to give our children a home as well? Yes it would give us a sense of peace, we know where they are and are safe? I use a question mark there because he would be enabled to continue drinking, even under your watchful eye he could still have a seizure. Can you image the daily torture you would go through? Running out of money and demanding it from you, potential violence when you try to be firm and say no. I beg of you to not give it a second thought and if his Dad or gay friend won’t take him back in well……this also is your very last bit of letting him see the full implications of his actions, being on the streets. It’s terrifying for me to even think about how living with no shelter can be but, have we not tried everything? Sacrificed everything? If this does not wake your son up or my daughter, I don’t know what will. My daughter will have no money when she gets out and yet I am going to keep my word and let her figure it out. Your son has a bit of money, the house with everything for only $100. is crazy! Sign me up am moving in! <img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="😁" title="Beaming face with smiling eyes :grin:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/6.6/png/unicode/64/1f601.png" data-shortname=":grin:" /> I keep using the, the want their cake and eat it too. So okay Mom your part in my life is to feed my addictions and give me a place to stay. Anything else in my life you are not a part of and you will let me do as I want, bring strangers to your house, keep you worried and unsettled each day. I find joy in your unhappiness. As an example when my Gizmo died, we put her to sleep, when my husband came back home with an empty blanket, some fur and her paw prints. I immediately lost it, wailed like I never have in my life! He had to get to work even though he did not want too. Just me and my daughter, she comes out of her bedroom and yells at me to stop! she was trying to sleep and had to be at work soon. I was shocked! Told her to leave me alone! She then says….awwww look at you, crying fake tears…your so fake. If there ever was a moment that I could of physically hurt her badly, this was it! Instead I screamed for her to leave me alone! I could not think or have the strength to argue because of my grief. This! is what they are truly about, their own agenda and not a care in the world about us. My daughter did nothing to help around the house, even asked her to mow the lawn, she saw how we struggled and finally had to buy an expensive ride on mower. Then! she says she would help mow the law. H*ll no! Not touching an expensive thing you will ruin. Unfortunately we have to remember the bad they did to us in order to keep strong. We deserve this so much, we are still good parents with open arms waiting should they choose to help themselves and respect us. <img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="🤗" title="Hugging face :hugging:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/6.6/png/unicode/64/1f917.png" data-shortname=":hugging:" /><img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="❤️" title="Red heart :heart:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/6.6/png/unicode/64/2764.png" data-shortname=":heart:" /></p><p></p><p>Happy Friday to you as well, have a lovely day off from work! <img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="🥰" title="Smiling face with hearts :smiling_face_with_3_hearts:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/6.6/png/unicode/64/1f970.png" data-shortname=":smiling_face_with_3_hearts:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ANewLife4Me, post: 765464, member: 32799"] Thank you my friend! I do believe we would get along so well as we share a lot in common. 🤗 I am screaming here though at the idea of putting up a house for him on your property, I almost did it too. Since he does receive money from SS at least he has that for a start. But to give our children a home as well? Yes it would give us a sense of peace, we know where they are and are safe? I use a question mark there because he would be enabled to continue drinking, even under your watchful eye he could still have a seizure. Can you image the daily torture you would go through? Running out of money and demanding it from you, potential violence when you try to be firm and say no. I beg of you to not give it a second thought and if his Dad or gay friend won’t take him back in well……this also is your very last bit of letting him see the full implications of his actions, being on the streets. It’s terrifying for me to even think about how living with no shelter can be but, have we not tried everything? Sacrificed everything? If this does not wake your son up or my daughter, I don’t know what will. My daughter will have no money when she gets out and yet I am going to keep my word and let her figure it out. Your son has a bit of money, the house with everything for only $100. is crazy! Sign me up am moving in! 😁 I keep using the, the want their cake and eat it too. So okay Mom your part in my life is to feed my addictions and give me a place to stay. Anything else in my life you are not a part of and you will let me do as I want, bring strangers to your house, keep you worried and unsettled each day. I find joy in your unhappiness. As an example when my Gizmo died, we put her to sleep, when my husband came back home with an empty blanket, some fur and her paw prints. I immediately lost it, wailed like I never have in my life! He had to get to work even though he did not want too. Just me and my daughter, she comes out of her bedroom and yells at me to stop! she was trying to sleep and had to be at work soon. I was shocked! Told her to leave me alone! She then says….awwww look at you, crying fake tears…your so fake. If there ever was a moment that I could of physically hurt her badly, this was it! Instead I screamed for her to leave me alone! I could not think or have the strength to argue because of my grief. This! is what they are truly about, their own agenda and not a care in the world about us. My daughter did nothing to help around the house, even asked her to mow the lawn, she saw how we struggled and finally had to buy an expensive ride on mower. Then! she says she would help mow the law. H*ll no! Not touching an expensive thing you will ruin. Unfortunately we have to remember the bad they did to us in order to keep strong. We deserve this so much, we are still good parents with open arms waiting should they choose to help themselves and respect us. 🤗❤️ Happy Friday to you as well, have a lovely day off from work! 🥰 [/QUOTE]
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