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The 2nd (maybe 3rd) worst phone call
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<blockquote data-quote="Snow White" data-source="post: 737962" data-attributes="member: 355"><p>The things that start to come back to you after you digest all of the proper information here!!!</p><p></p><p>AppleCori - you mentioned the need for daughter to 'prove' immediately that she is pregnant. Got me to thinking back to my OB/Gyn working days (did 24 years there). She said how tired she was (and that she still had jet lag - after 2-3 weeks?) but that she couldn't sleep and needed to take a diazepam. I flipped and told her that she needed to stop the diazepam and any other narcotics/benzodiazepines that she might be taking immediately. She seemed shocked when I said that but replied, "I don't think I'll be able to sleep while "X" is in the hospital, so I'll take one tonight and get a good rest." Fast forward to OB/Gyn days - pregnancy tests can be false-positive for a few reasons: recent early miscarriage, medications (<strong><u>antianxiety</u></strong>, antipsychotics, anticonvulsants), chemical pregnancy, Urinary Tract Infection (UTI) - which she says she has, etc. </p><p></p><p>She knows how the health care system works here in Canada. She is not eligible for her "free" health care until she has resided in one province for 3 months. So, if she starts her "doctoring" here, she will be paying a hefty price (or leaving a trail of unpaid bills). There are "free clinics" she can go to and lots of resources for expectant moms. She has managed herself for 4 years (minus all of the fix-ups by mom & dad), so she can figure this one out. She says she intended to become pregnant - she can intend to see it out. </p><p></p><p>After meeting the other guy she was engaged to in Sri Lanka, I know it is not the men...it is her. The prior one I trusted with wiring a large sum of money to get to daughter when she was robbed in Sri Lanka. He had already split from her and was willing to do that for me because daughter had no ID and couldn't get the funds for her replacement passport, etc. I think he finally realized he couldn't save her and that it was time to get out before the tornado sucked him in completely.</p><p></p><p>I am so glad that you are making me stop, look and listen. Each question you ask or suggestion you make forces me to slow down. This isn't a crisis and it definitely isn't MY crisis.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Snow White, post: 737962, member: 355"] The things that start to come back to you after you digest all of the proper information here!!! AppleCori - you mentioned the need for daughter to 'prove' immediately that she is pregnant. Got me to thinking back to my OB/Gyn working days (did 24 years there). She said how tired she was (and that she still had jet lag - after 2-3 weeks?) but that she couldn't sleep and needed to take a diazepam. I flipped and told her that she needed to stop the diazepam and any other narcotics/benzodiazepines that she might be taking immediately. She seemed shocked when I said that but replied, "I don't think I'll be able to sleep while "X" is in the hospital, so I'll take one tonight and get a good rest." Fast forward to OB/Gyn days - pregnancy tests can be false-positive for a few reasons: recent early miscarriage, medications ([B][U]antianxiety[/U][/B], antipsychotics, anticonvulsants), chemical pregnancy, Urinary Tract Infection (UTI) - which she says she has, etc. She knows how the health care system works here in Canada. She is not eligible for her "free" health care until she has resided in one province for 3 months. So, if she starts her "doctoring" here, she will be paying a hefty price (or leaving a trail of unpaid bills). There are "free clinics" she can go to and lots of resources for expectant moms. She has managed herself for 4 years (minus all of the fix-ups by mom & dad), so she can figure this one out. She says she intended to become pregnant - she can intend to see it out. After meeting the other guy she was engaged to in Sri Lanka, I know it is not the men...it is her. The prior one I trusted with wiring a large sum of money to get to daughter when she was robbed in Sri Lanka. He had already split from her and was willing to do that for me because daughter had no ID and couldn't get the funds for her replacement passport, etc. I think he finally realized he couldn't save her and that it was time to get out before the tornado sucked him in completely. I am so glad that you are making me stop, look and listen. Each question you ask or suggestion you make forces me to slow down. This isn't a crisis and it definitely isn't MY crisis. [/QUOTE]
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