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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 722719" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>thank you people.</p><p></p><p>he called.</p><p></p><p>said he was "on the street." he said something that implied he wanted to come back. i asked if he could test clean.</p><p></p><p>gist: you can only come </p><p>back here clean and productive, with a treatment plan in place and in practice to deal with your outbursts and depression. again i brought up neuropsychologist testing and vocational testing.</p><p></p><p>well. i'll be on the streets another month.</p><p></p><p>j. you knew you needed a place to stay. you knew no drug.. you had the option to seek help to quit. you had time to do so.</p><p></p><p>he tried to guilt me.(it worked.) but i translated to m and he said "no marijuana."</p><p></p><p>he borderline hung up on me. i waited an hour and half and called him back. </p><p></p><p>he's back living in front of kfc and sleeping in a car with the deaf guy. (who had a hacking cough which alarmed me. )</p><p></p><p>son sounded calm and upbeat. he said he was heading into the nearby large city tomorrow to take care of business. i did not try to pin him down. </p><p></p><p>he said he'd had no problems at kfc (as a living situation??) and says "we watch each other's back." he said he would deal with things one step at a time.</p><p></p><p>i feel better. one. he has a phone. two. he has support. three. we are talking. there is a conversation. four. it appears he is not aiming to make this long term and sees he is the one who will work his way out of this. or not.</p><p></p><p>we spoke one more time. it was loving. i told him: this is hard on me.</p><p></p><p>me too, he said. without self-pity. i love you mom.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 722719, member: 18958"] thank you people. he called. said he was "on the street." he said something that implied he wanted to come back. i asked if he could test clean. gist: you can only come back here clean and productive, with a treatment plan in place and in practice to deal with your outbursts and depression. again i brought up neuropsychologist testing and vocational testing. well. i'll be on the streets another month. j. you knew you needed a place to stay. you knew no drug.. you had the option to seek help to quit. you had time to do so. he tried to guilt me.(it worked.) but i translated to m and he said "no marijuana." he borderline hung up on me. i waited an hour and half and called him back. he's back living in front of kfc and sleeping in a car with the deaf guy. (who had a hacking cough which alarmed me. ) son sounded calm and upbeat. he said he was heading into the nearby large city tomorrow to take care of business. i did not try to pin him down. he said he'd had no problems at kfc (as a living situation??) and says "we watch each other's back." he said he would deal with things one step at a time. i feel better. one. he has a phone. two. he has support. three. we are talking. there is a conversation. four. it appears he is not aiming to make this long term and sees he is the one who will work his way out of this. or not. we spoke one more time. it was loving. i told him: this is hard on me. me too, he said. without self-pity. i love you mom. [/QUOTE]
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