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the ball is in his court??
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 722743" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>i called him back about the guy's cough. i knew it was a mistake. </p><p></p><p>he said the situatiion had taken a turn for the worst. he had to leave there.</p><p></p><p> why? the car had hygienic issues. (i don't even want to imagine. but unfortunately i do.)</p><p></p><p>he was waiting for a bus to ride around all night. he said there was the possibility his gym membership is still in effect and if so he could stay there all night. doubt this but it is a shred to cling to.</p><p></p><p>i can't imagine how it would be to live this. except: hello. i am.</p><p></p><p>srtl. thank you for your words, both loving and wise, which calmed and centered me. </p><p></p><p>Last night i told him: i do not think h (his friend) intended that harm or disappointment come from his interventions. he has love for you.</p><p></p><p> honestly. i do not think he could tolerate how you were living and he could not bear not acting from a moral sense. </p><p></p><p>but you have the responsibility here. to have said no. if h put conditions on a friendship which was his right, you could have said no. but what you can't do is continue to ask for his help and support and not do your part. i mean you can but it doesn't work forever.</p><p></p><p>i know mom. i'll keep my distance for now and give him some space. i'll call you.</p><p></p><p>thank you very much ladies.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 722743, member: 18958"] i called him back about the guy's cough. i knew it was a mistake. he said the situatiion had taken a turn for the worst. he had to leave there. why? the car had hygienic issues. (i don't even want to imagine. but unfortunately i do.) he was waiting for a bus to ride around all night. he said there was the possibility his gym membership is still in effect and if so he could stay there all night. doubt this but it is a shred to cling to. i can't imagine how it would be to live this. except: hello. i am. srtl. thank you for your words, both loving and wise, which calmed and centered me. Last night i told him: i do not think h (his friend) intended that harm or disappointment come from his interventions. he has love for you. honestly. i do not think he could tolerate how you were living and he could not bear not acting from a moral sense. but you have the responsibility here. to have said no. if h put conditions on a friendship which was his right, you could have said no. but what you can't do is continue to ask for his help and support and not do your part. i mean you can but it doesn't work forever. i know mom. i'll keep my distance for now and give him some space. i'll call you. thank you very much ladies. [/QUOTE]
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