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<blockquote data-quote="Littleboylost" data-source="post: 723015" data-attributes="member: 21895"><p>This thread has made me weap, it has made me very reflective and made me know I must carry forward. </p><p>"Fake it till you make it". Some times when we push our selves into a positive routine on a physical level the mind does follow. </p><p>There are times where I feel it is ok to curl into a ball and hide away from the world and all it's pain. This time is self healing to a degree, and yes Leafy I agree we must not dwell there. We must recharge and rejuvenate and push forward. Leading the example for our DCs to observe. </p><p>Spiruality is something I have struggled with and I agree Leafy, we do need to pursue and embrace spirituality. I no longer follow my catholic faith. I do have a highly spiritual need and try to sustain this as it buoys me through the difficult times. </p><p>We have all met in this tender zone where we are all faced with the inability to change what we so desperately would give anything to change for our DCs. </p><p></p><p>It is ours to behold and embrace, it is not ours to own or control. </p><p></p><p>If the lesson is to love and let go, I am still learning how to do this. Praying for the strength to continue on this path right along with all of you. </p><p></p><p>I do not know why my beautiful boy struggles the way he does. I do not know why I have been given this challenging lesson in life. </p><p></p><p>Bad <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" /> happens to good people all the time. I am not immune to this, I am not unique, I am not special. This is life. How well or poorly I live my role in this life is what I need to focus on. </p><p></p><p>Thank you Copa and Leafy. I feel I have the strength today to move forward in a positive way for myself, and to stop dwelling in worry and sadness for my son. </p><p></p><p>I am glad to have this forum. I am in a class today, monitoring and not teaching. This has helped stop my mind from wandering into dark places.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Littleboylost, post: 723015, member: 21895"] This thread has made me weap, it has made me very reflective and made me know I must carry forward. "Fake it till you make it". Some times when we push our selves into a positive routine on a physical level the mind does follow. There are times where I feel it is ok to curl into a ball and hide away from the world and all it's pain. This time is self healing to a degree, and yes Leafy I agree we must not dwell there. We must recharge and rejuvenate and push forward. Leading the example for our DCs to observe. Spiruality is something I have struggled with and I agree Leafy, we do need to pursue and embrace spirituality. I no longer follow my catholic faith. I do have a highly spiritual need and try to sustain this as it buoys me through the difficult times. We have all met in this tender zone where we are all faced with the inability to change what we so desperately would give anything to change for our DCs. It is ours to behold and embrace, it is not ours to own or control. If the lesson is to love and let go, I am still learning how to do this. Praying for the strength to continue on this path right along with all of you. I do not know why my beautiful boy struggles the way he does. I do not know why I have been given this challenging lesson in life. Bad :censored2: happens to good people all the time. I am not immune to this, I am not unique, I am not special. This is life. How well or poorly I live my role in this life is what I need to focus on. Thank you Copa and Leafy. I feel I have the strength today to move forward in a positive way for myself, and to stop dwelling in worry and sadness for my son. I am glad to have this forum. I am in a class today, monitoring and not teaching. This has helped stop my mind from wandering into dark places. [/QUOTE]
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