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the ball is in his court??
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 723043" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>my son expresses i am being abusive by my boundaries which are: drug free in my property and productive. we have also requested he be out of the other house during the workday (because we have one or two workers and it would not be good for their morale to have him around doing nothing.)</p><p></p><p>i did not stipulate he go into treatment. i only suggested he consider it because he for sure will be out if he tests dirty next tuesday. the balls to use drugs the day before he came home, knowing where we stood. he believes he calls the shots. and that is how he treats me.</p><p></p><p>i do not believe in rock bottom. i do not want him homeless or to suffer. but i do not want to enable him either.</p><p></p><p>he has the wherewithall to go to voc rehab. </p><p></p><p>he has the wherewithall to get treatment. </p><p></p><p>he has the wherewithall to go to na. </p><p></p><p>he can go to a class. </p><p></p><p>he can volunteer at the zoo or senior citizens or boys club. </p><p></p><p>he can join a gym for 10 dollars a mo, no deposit.</p><p></p><p>am i wrong?</p><p></p><p>i clearly cannot stop nor should i stop his mj use--as long as he is independent of me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 723043, member: 18958"] my son expresses i am being abusive by my boundaries which are: drug free in my property and productive. we have also requested he be out of the other house during the workday (because we have one or two workers and it would not be good for their morale to have him around doing nothing.) i did not stipulate he go into treatment. i only suggested he consider it because he for sure will be out if he tests dirty next tuesday. the balls to use drugs the day before he came home, knowing where we stood. he believes he calls the shots. and that is how he treats me. i do not believe in rock bottom. i do not want him homeless or to suffer. but i do not want to enable him either. he has the wherewithall to go to voc rehab. he has the wherewithall to get treatment. he has the wherewithall to go to na. he can go to a class. he can volunteer at the zoo or senior citizens or boys club. he can join a gym for 10 dollars a mo, no deposit. am i wrong? i clearly cannot stop nor should i stop his mj use--as long as he is independent of me. [/QUOTE]
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