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the ball is in his court??
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<blockquote data-quote="Sam3" data-source="post: 723084" data-attributes="member: 19290"><p>You posted this on LBLs thread</p><p></p><p><em><strong>and? i beg him to stay. he calls the shots. this morning i woke at 6 to a text saying more or less that i will suffer (and deserve to) more than i could ever imagine. and that he was leaving. because we were abusive. that i behave like a monster. that his friend (who has not seen me in a decade and around whom i have behaved like queen elizabeth) says so too.</strong></em></p><p><em><strong></strong></em></p><p><em><strong>and what did i do? go and beg him to not leave.</strong></em></p><p></p><p>First of all, garbage in garbage out. </p><p></p><p>But mostly, the revenge leaving. </p><p></p><p>Hypothetically, if a boyfriend said this to your daughter, and she wanted to beg him not to leave, you could see that for what it is. The product of emotional abuse. </p><p></p><p>I realize it is more complicated when there’s more at stake than feared abandonment, that you feel your proximity can keep him safe. But at what cost? Will he be able to have healthy relationships in the real world acting like this with his mother?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sam3, post: 723084, member: 19290"] You posted this on LBLs thread [I][B]and? i beg him to stay. he calls the shots. this morning i woke at 6 to a text saying more or less that i will suffer (and deserve to) more than i could ever imagine. and that he was leaving. because we were abusive. that i behave like a monster. that his friend (who has not seen me in a decade and around whom i have behaved like queen elizabeth) says so too. and what did i do? go and beg him to not leave.[/B][/I] [I][B][/B][/I] First of all, garbage in garbage out. But mostly, the revenge leaving. Hypothetically, if a boyfriend said this to your daughter, and she wanted to beg him not to leave, you could see that for what it is. The product of emotional abuse. I realize it is more complicated when there’s more at stake than feared abandonment, that you feel your proximity can keep him safe. But at what cost? Will he be able to have healthy relationships in the real world acting like this with his mother? [/QUOTE]
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