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the ball is in his court??
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<blockquote data-quote="Sam3" data-source="post: 723221" data-attributes="member: 19290"><p>When you posted this, I had just messaged to Copa that I had come here seeking answers about how best to help my son but,</p><p></p><p><em>What I’m realizing is that all this time I’ve been asking the wrong question. I have tried to learn and grow so I can change my approach to provide what might be palatable solutions. </em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>My son doesnt adopt them, except sometimes to placate or to get something, because for him, there is no question pending. </em></p><p></p><p><em>It’s my question. </em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>So I think my earlier comment is still accurate, that he’s not some unsolvable puzzle. To him, he’s not a puzzle, to be solved, at all. </em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>What is my question now? I don’t know but I do know that I want the solution to be peace.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p>I think you answered that. Start with the solution. Surrender peacefully to what is and the questions evaporate. </p><p></p><p>That feels right. </p><p><em><u></u></em></p><p><em><u></u></em></p><p><em><u></u></em></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sam3, post: 723221, member: 19290"] When you posted this, I had just messaged to Copa that I had come here seeking answers about how best to help my son but, [I]What I’m realizing is that all this time I’ve been asking the wrong question. I have tried to learn and grow so I can change my approach to provide what might be palatable solutions. My son doesnt adopt them, except sometimes to placate or to get something, because for him, there is no question pending. [/I] [I]It’s my question. So I think my earlier comment is still accurate, that he’s not some unsolvable puzzle. To him, he’s not a puzzle, to be solved, at all. What is my question now? I don’t know but I do know that I want the solution to be peace. [U][/U][/I] I think you answered that. Start with the solution. Surrender peacefully to what is and the questions evaporate. That feels right. [I][U] [/U][/I] [/QUOTE]
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