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The Cheese Stands Alone (my vent-apologies in advance)
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 428264" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I am so sorry. I HATE to hear that your family, all those women who didn't protect you from their abuse, have now left you alone to fight the legal fight. Some people are just sick and it is often better to excise them from your life like you would a cancerous mole. They are sick, sick, sick sick people and do NOT deserve to even know you, much less to call you family. </p><p></p><p>I am very proud of your SO. He is an AWESOME person, and has impressed me over and over through the years as he has shared your life. His family? Not worthy of the name. How DARE they expect him to spend an entire day helping move someone when not one of them could even drive a half hour to see him graduate? I guess with-o the druggie there to cause problems it wasn't dramatic enough to be worth their time. I am sorry to say this, but I bet you had a better time with-o them than youwould with them. I also think that cutting the druggie out of your life is one of their justifications for not being there. </p><p></p><p>I am proud that SO refused to answer the door to them. in my opinion he needs to spend about six months or more not being there when they want him to be. If they cannot be there at such an important time, esp knowing you have rented a room and prepared a ton of food to feed them, well, they do not deserve to see him much less to have his help. After that time if they are willing to do for him then they may get rewarded with his presence. Until then, block their phone numbers or let the machine pick up. Just don't answer and don't call them back. If they show up to pick him up to help them, well, he has other plans. He is going to help his old friend Susie and cannot get out of it. With what? Whatever. Then the two of you go and have fun doing something. </p><p></p><p>families can hurt you more than anyone else at any time. Such a strange thing, and so sad. no one else in the world would dare to treat you that way and tehn be upset when you refused to tolerate it. It is time to start building a family of friends that you care about and can count on and trust. I know how it hurts.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 428264, member: 1233"] I am so sorry. I HATE to hear that your family, all those women who didn't protect you from their abuse, have now left you alone to fight the legal fight. Some people are just sick and it is often better to excise them from your life like you would a cancerous mole. They are sick, sick, sick sick people and do NOT deserve to even know you, much less to call you family. I am very proud of your SO. He is an AWESOME person, and has impressed me over and over through the years as he has shared your life. His family? Not worthy of the name. How DARE they expect him to spend an entire day helping move someone when not one of them could even drive a half hour to see him graduate? I guess with-o the druggie there to cause problems it wasn't dramatic enough to be worth their time. I am sorry to say this, but I bet you had a better time with-o them than youwould with them. I also think that cutting the druggie out of your life is one of their justifications for not being there. I am proud that SO refused to answer the door to them. in my opinion he needs to spend about six months or more not being there when they want him to be. If they cannot be there at such an important time, esp knowing you have rented a room and prepared a ton of food to feed them, well, they do not deserve to see him much less to have his help. After that time if they are willing to do for him then they may get rewarded with his presence. Until then, block their phone numbers or let the machine pick up. Just don't answer and don't call them back. If they show up to pick him up to help them, well, he has other plans. He is going to help his old friend Susie and cannot get out of it. With what? Whatever. Then the two of you go and have fun doing something. families can hurt you more than anyone else at any time. Such a strange thing, and so sad. no one else in the world would dare to treat you that way and tehn be upset when you refused to tolerate it. It is time to start building a family of friends that you care about and can count on and trust. I know how it hurts. [/QUOTE]
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