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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 753837" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Thank you Beta, it was and is a hard thing, but the right thing, for him and all of us. He needs to know his bullying is unacceptable.</p><p> Thank you Tried. I am sorry you went through the same with your son. The rage is extremely frightening. It was as if he was demon possessed.</p><p></p><p> Job Corps would be good. There is also a military type school. I don’t know what he will choose because he admitted in his evaluation ( I read it today) that he sells weed to support his own habit. That he smoked every day since 11 or 12. Geez.</p><p>I thought so too about the toothbrush and chair, the switch in his attitude. It was obvious he was vying for control. Yes, he wanted to run the house. NOPE!</p><p></p><p>That is my feeling exactly. He had no respect. How can I begin to help him if he looks down on me?</p><p></p><p> It will take time. We shall see what course he decides to take. I read through his evaluation. He admitted to heavily smoking pot and dealing to support his habit. WHAT? First of all, who would admit to that to a professional, second, I absolutely will not have that in my home.</p><p></p><p>This is true, there is so much out there to help guide him, but he does not want it.</p><p></p><p></p><p>So true Apple. Sister confessed the other night that she is secretly glad he is gone. That speaks volumes.</p><p> Agree.</p><p></p><p> This is what I am focusing on. It is hard to swallow the grief of it all. But I had to take a stance to protect my home and grands. Right now, he is making terrible choices.</p><p></p><p> Thank you Apple. I hope and pray he gets the help he needs. He has already stated that he doesn’t want help. He knows the path he is choosing is much like that of his parents. He knows the end result. But it hasn’t deterred him. I can’t sit and watch the circus up close and personal without taking a stand.</p><p>Thank you all for your prayers and support. I am off to work today, will respond to others later. I am just mortified that my grandson would choose as he does. I hope he sees the light one day soon. The house is much calmer without his dark presence. He chose to be a bully in my home. He chose wrong.</p><p>(((Hugs)))</p><p>Leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 753837, member: 19522"] Thank you Beta, it was and is a hard thing, but the right thing, for him and all of us. He needs to know his bullying is unacceptable. Thank you Tried. I am sorry you went through the same with your son. The rage is extremely frightening. It was as if he was demon possessed. Job Corps would be good. There is also a military type school. I don’t know what he will choose because he admitted in his evaluation ( I read it today) that he sells weed to support his own habit. That he smoked every day since 11 or 12. Geez. I thought so too about the toothbrush and chair, the switch in his attitude. It was obvious he was vying for control. Yes, he wanted to run the house. NOPE! That is my feeling exactly. He had no respect. How can I begin to help him if he looks down on me? It will take time. We shall see what course he decides to take. I read through his evaluation. He admitted to heavily smoking pot and dealing to support his habit. WHAT? First of all, who would admit to that to a professional, second, I absolutely will not have that in my home. This is true, there is so much out there to help guide him, but he does not want it. So true Apple. Sister confessed the other night that she is secretly glad he is gone. That speaks volumes. Agree. This is what I am focusing on. It is hard to swallow the grief of it all. But I had to take a stance to protect my home and grands. Right now, he is making terrible choices. Thank you Apple. I hope and pray he gets the help he needs. He has already stated that he doesn’t want help. He knows the path he is choosing is much like that of his parents. He knows the end result. But it hasn’t deterred him. I can’t sit and watch the circus up close and personal without taking a stand. Thank you all for your prayers and support. I am off to work today, will respond to others later. I am just mortified that my grandson would choose as he does. I hope he sees the light one day soon. The house is much calmer without his dark presence. He chose to be a bully in my home. He chose wrong. (((Hugs))) Leafy [/QUOTE]
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