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The dust settles, but where?
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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 724732" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>BBU, I am sorry. You've been a beacon of light and integrity during this devastating time for your wife and her sons......unfortunately it appears this situation opened the door to leaving just a little bit more as you come to your own realizations about <em>your</em> well being and <em>your</em> needs.</p><p></p><p>There are some hard choices in life and you're facing one of them right now. Ending a relationship is a huge decision, it makes sense to me that you are weighing all of it and taking your time as you figure out what the next step is. I think like everything else in life, this is also a process as you work through what is not working for you, how to do this part and what you want now. Give yourself the benefit of time. You've stepped back.....you're addressing the issues......when you're ready, it will become clear and then you can make whatever move feels necessary. </p><p></p><p>You're not a downer, you're facing big life choices and it's appropriate and necessary to vent. I have faith that when the time is right, when you feel ready, when it all lines up.....the decision will emerge organically and you'll know what to do and when to do it.</p><p></p><p>Sending prayers for you during this difficult time of choice.....and big, warm hugs too.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 724732, member: 13542"] BBU, I am sorry. You've been a beacon of light and integrity during this devastating time for your wife and her sons......unfortunately it appears this situation opened the door to leaving just a little bit more as you come to your own realizations about [I]your[/I] well being and [I]your[/I] needs. There are some hard choices in life and you're facing one of them right now. Ending a relationship is a huge decision, it makes sense to me that you are weighing all of it and taking your time as you figure out what the next step is. I think like everything else in life, this is also a process as you work through what is not working for you, how to do this part and what you want now. Give yourself the benefit of time. You've stepped back.....you're addressing the issues......when you're ready, it will become clear and then you can make whatever move feels necessary. You're not a downer, you're facing big life choices and it's appropriate and necessary to vent. I have faith that when the time is right, when you feel ready, when it all lines up.....the decision will emerge organically and you'll know what to do and when to do it. Sending prayers for you during this difficult time of choice.....and big, warm hugs too. [/QUOTE]
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