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The fear that your child could die
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 740796" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Copa, I also hoped you would respond .What a beautiful and true response. Not always comforting but so true. Thank you a million times.</p><p></p><p> I was especially taken when you said he chooses this. Of course he does! He doesnt have to fight about everything his ex wants. He could give in. He could pay at least some of his legal bills and not be so financially drpendent on a very unstable father.He can go to doctors, seek therapy. Be NICER. Like my father before him, I truly think he believes he is a nice guy. I dont know what you do with that. Nothing. You cant get nicer if you already think you are nice even while screaming eff you to the world. You cant get help if you think its all coming from the outside and you are just a victim. To get help in therapy you must admit that you are your biggest problem and want to change. So if you dint think so, you dont change and you stay unhappy. </p><p></p><p>You are right that I can not make him take care of himself. Everything he does from his eating habits to not seeing a doctor or therapist to not exercising is unhelpful to himself but I cant change it.</p><p></p><p>It is time to give up the battle and hand him over to God. Its out of my hands.</p><p></p><p>Thanks again for your wise words.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 740796, member: 1550"] Copa, I also hoped you would respond .What a beautiful and true response. Not always comforting but so true. Thank you a million times. I was especially taken when you said he chooses this. Of course he does! He doesnt have to fight about everything his ex wants. He could give in. He could pay at least some of his legal bills and not be so financially drpendent on a very unstable father.He can go to doctors, seek therapy. Be NICER. Like my father before him, I truly think he believes he is a nice guy. I dont know what you do with that. Nothing. You cant get nicer if you already think you are nice even while screaming eff you to the world. You cant get help if you think its all coming from the outside and you are just a victim. To get help in therapy you must admit that you are your biggest problem and want to change. So if you dint think so, you dont change and you stay unhappy. You are right that I can not make him take care of himself. Everything he does from his eating habits to not seeing a doctor or therapist to not exercising is unhelpful to himself but I cant change it. It is time to give up the battle and hand him over to God. Its out of my hands. Thanks again for your wise words. [/QUOTE]
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