Thank you Nomad. I really needed that hug for today. Was told today that “I’m on punishment“ for my actions and that I will NOT see, talk to or hear from my grandchild until I‘ve learned my lesson I about a year or so. I’m hurt beyond words but the venom she spit today keeps me grounded knowing I needed to get that poison out of my house. Hopefully it won’t be a year but who knows.
She is saying this to me and I’m still helping her financially by paying her car insurance. How does she think she can talk to me any kind of way I will continue to help her or that I owe her anything? She keeps saying she’s the bad guy but this is not fair to her child and how can I make make my grandchild homeless? She keeps using her child as a pawn to manipulate me and make me feel sorry and guilty. It tugs at my heart strings but not enough to let her come back and keep disrespecting me. She’s not here and is still causing me stress.
