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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 755164" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>My daughter did not take care of the house nor pay. In retrospect, we feel it would have been better to have just paid her rent on somebody else's property, which we eventually did but that didn't work either since Lee and Kay broke the rules, used drugs and more importantly had loud fights that disrupted others and spilled into the hallways.</p><p></p><p>We found that nothing worked and our bank account is not as it should have been or as we planned for it to be.</p><p></p><p>I have no idea if your son is capable of or willing to take care of property long term. I think most of our troubled adults children are not. But we need to do what feels right to us. You never know.</p><p></p><p>Sadly our daughter started out with a house, then we bought her a mobile home which did not end well either then a series of apartments until we quit. She got a low income apartment and they were evicted. Now she and Lee live in a ten year old camper on the curb of a street in California.</p><p></p><p>I pray and wish for you to have a better outcome. Since all people are different, perhaps your son will step up to the plate. I sincerely hope so. Blessings.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 755164, member: 23706"] My daughter did not take care of the house nor pay. In retrospect, we feel it would have been better to have just paid her rent on somebody else's property, which we eventually did but that didn't work either since Lee and Kay broke the rules, used drugs and more importantly had loud fights that disrupted others and spilled into the hallways. We found that nothing worked and our bank account is not as it should have been or as we planned for it to be. I have no idea if your son is capable of or willing to take care of property long term. I think most of our troubled adults children are not. But we need to do what feels right to us. You never know. Sadly our daughter started out with a house, then we bought her a mobile home which did not end well either then a series of apartments until we quit. She got a low income apartment and they were evicted. Now she and Lee live in a ten year old camper on the curb of a street in California. I pray and wish for you to have a better outcome. Since all people are different, perhaps your son will step up to the plate. I sincerely hope so. Blessings. [/QUOTE]
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