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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 738959" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Right? This is typical Tornado, life revolves around her and the misery she created for herself, her children, her family, that is “<em>everyone else’s fault</em>.” No realization that I have had to learn to take care of myself since her father passed, that I have a job, responsibility and her brother is graduating this year. No appreciation that her kids paternal grandparents have been raising her kids with no financial assistance. Ugh.</p><p> Indeed. Can’t separate the fabrication from the truth. Except that her own kids have seen her “smoking something from a glass pipe”, seen her fluctuations in mood, been hungry because she traded their food for booze and drug money, been abandoned.</p><p></p><p>Me too, Bluebell. Amazing at the things my daughter has done, yet still judges others harshly. She has a lot to learn.</p><p></p><p> I had to do the math. It has been a short time, but for someone who has lived as she has, it must seem like a lifetime. Too bad.</p><p></p><p> That is my thinking, Deni. She has a thickened callous around her heart and her responsibility in all of this. Only time will tell what comes round the bend.</p><p></p><p> She had some wonderful experiences in her young life, traveling, learning and living her Hawaiian culture. Hopefully she will use those skills buried deep within to navigate a brighter path. We shall see.</p><p>Thank you so much for your response guys. It is good to get this out of my system. It is a festering mess, otherwise. Definitely not conversation for break time.</p><p>Off to work I go. Have a blessed day all.</p><p>(((Hugs)))</p><p>Leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 738959, member: 19522"] Right? This is typical Tornado, life revolves around her and the misery she created for herself, her children, her family, that is “[I]everyone else’s fault[/I].” No realization that I have had to learn to take care of myself since her father passed, that I have a job, responsibility and her brother is graduating this year. No appreciation that her kids paternal grandparents have been raising her kids with no financial assistance. Ugh. Indeed. Can’t separate the fabrication from the truth. Except that her own kids have seen her “smoking something from a glass pipe”, seen her fluctuations in mood, been hungry because she traded their food for booze and drug money, been abandoned. Me too, Bluebell. Amazing at the things my daughter has done, yet still judges others harshly. She has a lot to learn. I had to do the math. It has been a short time, but for someone who has lived as she has, it must seem like a lifetime. Too bad. That is my thinking, Deni. She has a thickened callous around her heart and her responsibility in all of this. Only time will tell what comes round the bend. She had some wonderful experiences in her young life, traveling, learning and living her Hawaiian culture. Hopefully she will use those skills buried deep within to navigate a brighter path. We shall see. Thank you so much for your response guys. It is good to get this out of my system. It is a festering mess, otherwise. Definitely not conversation for break time. Off to work I go. Have a blessed day all. (((Hugs))) Leafy [/QUOTE]
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