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<blockquote data-quote="Wish" data-source="post: 738972" data-attributes="member: 23140"><p>Hi Leafy,</p><p></p><p>What a reveal indeed. She definitely hasn't hit her rock bottom yet, but she's on her way there so long as the lesson she needs to learn isn't interrupted. If she were that scared of those girls, she would have been a lot more humble in her phone call you would think but also I am sure she is pretty stubbron even to her own detriment.</p><p></p><p>I don't think it will be too much longer until they release her. They can't keep her there on that kind of a charge that much longer. I would say two more months, top, at the longest, but probably much sooner. However, I hope it's not that much sooner because in her current emotional state, she seems like she is going to be a handful to the staff members in rehab which will not bode well for her. Rehabs do not tolerate ornery behavior for very long. You only get one, two, maybe 3 chances if your lucky and she seems like she will blow through those 3 chances in under a week by the way she is talking right now. If rehab is the only way you can get signed out of jail, meaning you don't have anyone to bail you out, and you get kicked out of said rehab.....the judges <em><u><strong>really</strong></u></em> detest that. She won't get anymore second chances after that. Off to prison she goes, because her charge will then turn into a more serious one for lack of a better way to explain it. Courts usually will work with low offenders on a semi- serious charge which I know said earlier that it wasn't a serious charge, but it's confusing how the court system handles it. If she does what she is suppose to do, they won't be that hard on her, but if she doesn't, it will be hard on her. Does that make sense?</p><p></p><p>Anyway, I feel like I am babbling and I apologize if I am.</p><p></p><p>My wish for her is to stay in jail a little bit longer so this way so she can become more humble, hit her rock bottom or get as close to it as she can, so she has a better chance at rehab when she goes. You can tell her if you speak to her againt that rehabs aren't only for drug addicts. You can apply their lessons to any situation in your life. I am praying nothing but success for her and all of our children. I still have faith your girls can turn this around, especially Rain but as you said, it will be difficult for her to get herself out of that lifestyle since she is so immersed in it. I really liked when you said "I do see the good in her reaching out" about her, that touched my heart personally. How loving of you as a mother to be willing to see that and acknowledge that.</p><p></p><p>Anyway, I am always here sending you lots of hugs and loves Leafy. Keep on hanging in there.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Wish, post: 738972, member: 23140"] Hi Leafy, What a reveal indeed. She definitely hasn't hit her rock bottom yet, but she's on her way there so long as the lesson she needs to learn isn't interrupted. If she were that scared of those girls, she would have been a lot more humble in her phone call you would think but also I am sure she is pretty stubbron even to her own detriment. I don't think it will be too much longer until they release her. They can't keep her there on that kind of a charge that much longer. I would say two more months, top, at the longest, but probably much sooner. However, I hope it's not that much sooner because in her current emotional state, she seems like she is going to be a handful to the staff members in rehab which will not bode well for her. Rehabs do not tolerate ornery behavior for very long. You only get one, two, maybe 3 chances if your lucky and she seems like she will blow through those 3 chances in under a week by the way she is talking right now. If rehab is the only way you can get signed out of jail, meaning you don't have anyone to bail you out, and you get kicked out of said rehab.....the judges [I][U][B]really[/B][/U][/I] detest that. She won't get anymore second chances after that. Off to prison she goes, because her charge will then turn into a more serious one for lack of a better way to explain it. Courts usually will work with low offenders on a semi- serious charge which I know said earlier that it wasn't a serious charge, but it's confusing how the court system handles it. If she does what she is suppose to do, they won't be that hard on her, but if she doesn't, it will be hard on her. Does that make sense? Anyway, I feel like I am babbling and I apologize if I am. My wish for her is to stay in jail a little bit longer so this way so she can become more humble, hit her rock bottom or get as close to it as she can, so she has a better chance at rehab when she goes. You can tell her if you speak to her againt that rehabs aren't only for drug addicts. You can apply their lessons to any situation in your life. I am praying nothing but success for her and all of our children. I still have faith your girls can turn this around, especially Rain but as you said, it will be difficult for her to get herself out of that lifestyle since she is so immersed in it. I really liked when you said "I do see the good in her reaching out" about her, that touched my heart personally. How loving of you as a mother to be willing to see that and acknowledge that. Anyway, I am always here sending you lots of hugs and loves Leafy. Keep on hanging in there. [/QUOTE]
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