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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 738980" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I am finding her sense of entitlement and lack of empathy insufferable too. She is like the yellow tiger in a book I read as a child spinning, spinning in a circle, until he melts into a yellow mass, a pool of butter. Like this, she will fall into a heap into herself. When all of this frenetic activity, finger pointing, manipulating, demanding, frantic activity, stops. What will be left? Herself.</p><p></p><p>All of us do this, I think. At least I do. I think that was what I did with the online shopping. Shop until you drop. Doing anything I could to keep dancing, so that the horrible feelings would not come. Keep the illusion as long as I could that something external could take away the pain.</p><p></p><p>In daughter's case there must be so much regret and shame and responsibility right below the surface.</p><p></p><p>Lest we begin to have empathy for them, (which deters us from our mission, to stay located in ourselves) let us remember here how insufferable they are.</p><p></p><p>Oh. There is nothing fun about this. New Leaf. Oh. How sorry I am that we, you, and suffering this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 738980, member: 18958"] I am finding her sense of entitlement and lack of empathy insufferable too. She is like the yellow tiger in a book I read as a child spinning, spinning in a circle, until he melts into a yellow mass, a pool of butter. Like this, she will fall into a heap into herself. When all of this frenetic activity, finger pointing, manipulating, demanding, frantic activity, stops. What will be left? Herself. All of us do this, I think. At least I do. I think that was what I did with the online shopping. Shop until you drop. Doing anything I could to keep dancing, so that the horrible feelings would not come. Keep the illusion as long as I could that something external could take away the pain. In daughter's case there must be so much regret and shame and responsibility right below the surface. Lest we begin to have empathy for them, (which deters us from our mission, to stay located in ourselves) let us remember here how insufferable they are. Oh. There is nothing fun about this. New Leaf. Oh. How sorry I am that we, you, and suffering this. [/QUOTE]
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