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<blockquote data-quote="2much2recover" data-source="post: 645400" data-attributes="member: 18366"><p>Yes, Jabber as in dominate genes. </p><p>As bad as it seems to say anything "good" about this situation, it is at least heartening to see that you are awaking to this whole situation is about him - that maybe you are getting around to, you didn't break it and you can't fix it". </p><p>Lil, it is great to see that you are coming to the conclusion that what is wrong with him may just be his DNA. Getting your head wrapped around that is HUGE! Once you come through acceptance, you will be better able to handle a relationship with your son on your terms. Like when he wouldn't stop arguing you told him to get the eff out of your car. Once you quit fighting it there will be days where you will be able to just go get a bite without arguing or "getting involved" and others where you will indeed have to repeat the phrase "get the eff out".</p><p></p><p>I like what Cedar told you yesterday - just go to work, work your heart out until you are exhausted, then you have nothing left to give your difficult child son. You love him I am sure, effed up DNA and all. He just has to fend for himself now and you and Jabber have to be all about you and Jabber.</p><p></p><p>You are getting a handle on what has not worked, what will not work.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="2much2recover, post: 645400, member: 18366"] Yes, Jabber as in dominate genes. As bad as it seems to say anything "good" about this situation, it is at least heartening to see that you are awaking to this whole situation is about him - that maybe you are getting around to, you didn't break it and you can't fix it". Lil, it is great to see that you are coming to the conclusion that what is wrong with him may just be his DNA. Getting your head wrapped around that is HUGE! Once you come through acceptance, you will be better able to handle a relationship with your son on your terms. Like when he wouldn't stop arguing you told him to get the eff out of your car. Once you quit fighting it there will be days where you will be able to just go get a bite without arguing or "getting involved" and others where you will indeed have to repeat the phrase "get the eff out". I like what Cedar told you yesterday - just go to work, work your heart out until you are exhausted, then you have nothing left to give your difficult child son. You love him I am sure, effed up DNA and all. He just has to fend for himself now and you and Jabber have to be all about you and Jabber. You are getting a handle on what has not worked, what will not work. [/QUOTE]
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