SuZir, we've wondered for YEARS if he had some degree of aspie's. He had just evened out enough for so long that we didn't bother testing. By the time of his launch into GFGdom it was too late to have him tested as he was old enough to legally resist. Our whiskers were twitching when he was 16 but the problems didn't fully emerge until he was 17 which is an age, in Missouri anyway, that can be a royal nightmare for the parents. When the child reaches the age of 17 in Missouri you, the parent, are still legally and financially responsible for them. The kicker is that you can no longer make them do anything. They run away, the police say "Oh, he's 17? We cant do anything. That would violate his rights." Cant force them to go see a counselor or psychologist either so yeah, he timed it perfectly to keep us out of the loop.