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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 645576" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>I wish this made me feel better than it does. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> </p><p> </p><p>It's the "giving up". He's said since about age 15 (prior to full-blown gfgdom) that people had to "not judge" and "accept him exactly as he is" and if they don't the it's THEM that are wrong. Not HIM. He's fine. He's right. If he has long greasy hair, if he smokes pot, if he doesn't do...whatever...that's fine. This shouldn't stop him from getting a job. It shouldn't make people look down on him. Because if they can't accept that he's just fine the way he is then THEY are the one's with a problem. </p><p> </p><p>Pointing out that if two equally qualified people apply for a job, and one is clean-cut and neat and respectable looking, and one is...well...HIM, the OTHER one will get the job - he doesn't seem to "get" that. </p><p> </p><p>Or he doesn't care. He doesn't want to be one of "them". </p><p> </p><p>Not sure which it really is.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 645576, member: 17309"] I wish this made me feel better than it does. :( It's the "giving up". He's said since about age 15 (prior to full-blown gfgdom) that people had to "not judge" and "accept him exactly as he is" and if they don't the it's THEM that are wrong. Not HIM. He's fine. He's right. If he has long greasy hair, if he smokes pot, if he doesn't do...whatever...that's fine. This shouldn't stop him from getting a job. It shouldn't make people look down on him. Because if they can't accept that he's just fine the way he is then THEY are the one's with a problem. Pointing out that if two equally qualified people apply for a job, and one is clean-cut and neat and respectable looking, and one is...well...HIM, the OTHER one will get the job - he doesn't seem to "get" that. Or he doesn't care. He doesn't want to be one of "them". Not sure which it really is. [/QUOTE]
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