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The wedding of my oldest son was this past weekend...
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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 666293" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>COM, I agree that is what we do.......and stopping that projection is like stopping a runaway train!</p><p></p><p>You are so good about being able to see your own "stuff" and even if you can't stop the feelings, you do a great job of refraining......even when you are hurting. Reminds me of something an old friend used to say all the time, "enlightenment is getting off of it before anyone knows you're on it!" You did that COM.</p><p></p><p>I can empathize with you. Now a lot of my possible enabling, control and projecting goes on inside my head. I don't usually act on it, but the impetus is still there which I have to, like you, control. It is so like an addiction isn't it? The part of me that is bigger now knows the behavior leads nowhere but suffering, but it doesn't mean it isn't right there. It's a choice we have to continue to make.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>That is my prayer too.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 666293, member: 13542"] COM, I agree that is what we do.......and stopping that projection is like stopping a runaway train! You are so good about being able to see your own "stuff" and even if you can't stop the feelings, you do a great job of refraining......even when you are hurting. Reminds me of something an old friend used to say all the time, "enlightenment is getting off of it before anyone knows you're on it!" You did that COM. I can empathize with you. Now a lot of my possible enabling, control and projecting goes on inside my head. I don't usually act on it, but the impetus is still there which I have to, like you, control. It is so like an addiction isn't it? The part of me that is bigger now knows the behavior leads nowhere but suffering, but it doesn't mean it isn't right there. It's a choice we have to continue to make. That is my prayer too. [/QUOTE]
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