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the you -know-what is hitting the fan............ Updated 1/9
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<blockquote data-quote="Witzend_Away" data-source="post: 8649" data-attributes="member: 3390"><p>[ QUOTE ]</p><p>HE has voided all 'arrangements' he made when he was planning on returning home. He NEVER holds up his end of a bargain. NEVER. </p><p></p><p>[/ QUOTE ]</p><p></p><p>How does he void his arrangements with you, but you don't get to void your arrangements with him? (by the way, who paid your rent when you were 21?) It sounds like it's time for your fledgling to leave the nest. Besides, they learn so much more about life when someone other than mom or dad refuses to put up with their garbage. And believe me, no one will.</p><p></p><p>I hope that you will hold up your end of the bargain. If he moved in under certain conditions, then he shouldn't be surprised when you tell him to leave. I know it's hard and it's asking for a fight. You have to be prepared for it and you have to stand your ground or it's useless to even bring it up. But I promise you, this is where he will learn his lesson. </p><p></p><p>Just keep telling yourself that you are being honest and straight forward with him, you're doing the right thing. :warrior: You are living up to your agreement. And <em>you</em> didn't cause him to break his foot.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Witzend_Away, post: 8649, member: 3390"] [ QUOTE ] HE has voided all 'arrangements' he made when he was planning on returning home. He NEVER holds up his end of a bargain. NEVER. [/ QUOTE ] How does he void his arrangements with you, but you don't get to void your arrangements with him? (by the way, who paid your rent when you were 21?) It sounds like it's time for your fledgling to leave the nest. Besides, they learn so much more about life when someone other than mom or dad refuses to put up with their garbage. And believe me, no one will. I hope that you will hold up your end of the bargain. If he moved in under certain conditions, then he shouldn't be surprised when you tell him to leave. I know it's hard and it's asking for a fight. You have to be prepared for it and you have to stand your ground or it's useless to even bring it up. But I promise you, this is where he will learn his lesson. Just keep telling yourself that you are being honest and straight forward with him, you're doing the right thing. [img]:warrior:[/img] You are living up to your agreement. And [i]you[/i] didn't cause him to break his foot. [/QUOTE]
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