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Things That Make You Go...."Hmmmm....."
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<blockquote data-quote="HeadlightsMom" data-source="post: 637323" data-attributes="member: 18284"><p>dstc-99 -- Great post! And how refreshing to hear that your therapist requested to meet with you years later and apologized! I'll bet that was cleansing on many levels. I sure appreciate your posts, dstc_99! (and, of course, your Seahawks logo! GO HAWKS!) </p><p></p><p>Judgments often just don't help at all. I hate being judged (esp without all the facts) and appreciate reminders to not judge others (esp without all the facts). I view judging and discerning as 2 very distinctly different entities. Judging carries blame, discerning doesn't. Sometimes I struggle with anger or guilt inside me and want to blame others. Occasionally, anger or guilt may prompt us to make necessary changes. But, still, ultimately I am the one responsible for my own feelings and actions. </p><p></p><p>I may be silly, but I think The Golden Rule and Boundaries can co-exist peacefully and healthily. Of course, I'm not always the best at practicing this. But working on it and learning. Always work in progress! <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="HeadlightsMom, post: 637323, member: 18284"] dstc-99 -- Great post! And how refreshing to hear that your therapist requested to meet with you years later and apologized! I'll bet that was cleansing on many levels. I sure appreciate your posts, dstc_99! (and, of course, your Seahawks logo! GO HAWKS!) Judgments often just don't help at all. I hate being judged (esp without all the facts) and appreciate reminders to not judge others (esp without all the facts). I view judging and discerning as 2 very distinctly different entities. Judging carries blame, discerning doesn't. Sometimes I struggle with anger or guilt inside me and want to blame others. Occasionally, anger or guilt may prompt us to make necessary changes. But, still, ultimately I am the one responsible for my own feelings and actions. I may be silly, but I think The Golden Rule and Boundaries can co-exist peacefully and healthily. Of course, I'm not always the best at practicing this. But working on it and learning. Always work in progress! :) [/QUOTE]
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