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This is a test, this is only a test of the difficult adult child arguing system.......
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 754413" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>Tanya...all these kids seem to have the same playbook.</p><p></p><p>You described my daughter. She, looking back, cared little for us nor gave a hoot about what we thought about anything except pot. And the evils of vaccines. Although she rarely spoke to us for any length of time, she could drone on for hours about the PROVEN benefits of pot and the PROVEN evils of vaccines and how the government was actually killing homeopathic practitioners.</p><p></p><p>We had to sit and listen and never speak our own minds or the speeches would turn into abusive rages about how we never support her and we thought she was stupid.</p><p></p><p>I do not believe that all kids have a need to seek parents out. Some just don't care and are fine without us and Kay is an example. If my husband and I had stopped giving Kay her wants and needs years ago I believe she would have cut us off then. Wanting our money and sheltering help and money does not in any way mean kids are emotionally attached to parents. </p><p></p><p>Kay is only interested in what we might offer her. She doesn't love us for who we are or for being her loving parents. I don't believe that all our kids share the same unconditional love for us that we have for them, especially damaged kids like our Kay. Our two other kids love us and want to have a relationship with us outside of money, which they never want from us. Kay? We are only as important as the last "help" we gave her. Sad but I have faced this now </p><p></p><p>If Kay texted me for any reason I would panic and think"What does she want from us now?" Seeing her name coming up on my phone often made me weak and ill.</p><p></p><p>God bless us all.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 754413, member: 23706"] Tanya...all these kids seem to have the same playbook. You described my daughter. She, looking back, cared little for us nor gave a hoot about what we thought about anything except pot. And the evils of vaccines. Although she rarely spoke to us for any length of time, she could drone on for hours about the PROVEN benefits of pot and the PROVEN evils of vaccines and how the government was actually killing homeopathic practitioners. We had to sit and listen and never speak our own minds or the speeches would turn into abusive rages about how we never support her and we thought she was stupid. I do not believe that all kids have a need to seek parents out. Some just don't care and are fine without us and Kay is an example. If my husband and I had stopped giving Kay her wants and needs years ago I believe she would have cut us off then. Wanting our money and sheltering help and money does not in any way mean kids are emotionally attached to parents. Kay is only interested in what we might offer her. She doesn't love us for who we are or for being her loving parents. I don't believe that all our kids share the same unconditional love for us that we have for them, especially damaged kids like our Kay. Our two other kids love us and want to have a relationship with us outside of money, which they never want from us. Kay? We are only as important as the last "help" we gave her. Sad but I have faced this now If Kay texted me for any reason I would panic and think"What does she want from us now?" Seeing her name coming up on my phone often made me weak and ill. God bless us all. [/QUOTE]
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