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Thoughts about forgiving myself and my son
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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 753886" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Hi MissLuLu,</p><p></p><p>I'm so glad you are here with us!</p><p></p><p></p><p>Please understand that "feelings" have no power unless we give them power. </p><p>Know what is true! You loved your son and raised him the very best you could. That is enough. </p><p></p><p></p><p>I think this is a very normal reaction but not warranted. </p><p></p><p>There are many stories of people being raised in very loving homes who end up difficult and there are also many stories of people who grew up in total dysfunction who end up being responsible. How our children turn out is not always a reflection upon us.</p><p></p><p>There is a saying about living in the FOG (Fear, Obligation, Guilt) when we start to recognize this for what it is, we can then start coming out of the FOG.</p><p></p><p>Keep reading others posts and keep posting.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 753886, member: 18516"] Hi MissLuLu, I'm so glad you are here with us! Please understand that "feelings" have no power unless we give them power. Know what is true! You loved your son and raised him the very best you could. That is enough. I think this is a very normal reaction but not warranted. There are many stories of people being raised in very loving homes who end up difficult and there are also many stories of people who grew up in total dysfunction who end up being responsible. How our children turn out is not always a reflection upon us. There is a saying about living in the FOG (Fear, Obligation, Guilt) when we start to recognize this for what it is, we can then start coming out of the FOG. Keep reading others posts and keep posting. [/QUOTE]
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