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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 758010" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Trying, that I am aware of you've told him this before. Perhaps, many times. The person who needs to listen is you. The person who needs to hear you, is you.</p><p></p><p>His feelings, his thoughts, his actions, are his to manage. His learning is his to do. About his finances, his health, his weight, his jobs, his girlfriends, all his learning. Your learning is to listen to yourself, to your needs, to your wants, to your desires for security and contentment and to act for yourself, in terms of boundaries, self-care, and support.</p><p>I could say here, "back to you." With your intelligence, can you not see what you're doing to your financial future and your health, mentally and physically, by living your life located in him? Trying, it's not helping him and it's hurting you. Please stay here with us. I believe you are changing powerfully, but this process requires accountability. Accountability to yourself. By posting here, on your own threads, and on the threads of others you will find what you need. It's about muscle. This is a work out.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 758010, member: 18958"] Trying, that I am aware of you've told him this before. Perhaps, many times. The person who needs to listen is you. The person who needs to hear you, is you. His feelings, his thoughts, his actions, are his to manage. His learning is his to do. About his finances, his health, his weight, his jobs, his girlfriends, all his learning. Your learning is to listen to yourself, to your needs, to your wants, to your desires for security and contentment and to act for yourself, in terms of boundaries, self-care, and support. I could say here, "back to you." With your intelligence, can you not see what you're doing to your financial future and your health, mentally and physically, by living your life located in him? Trying, it's not helping him and it's hurting you. Please stay here with us. I believe you are changing powerfully, but this process requires accountability. Accountability to yourself. By posting here, on your own threads, and on the threads of others you will find what you need. It's about muscle. This is a work out. [/QUOTE]
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