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Threats of havoc, how do I react?
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 639608" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>I say no. You could tell difficult child these kinds of things are going to come up throughout his life, and that now is a good time for him to learn how to understand his own reactions, and to learn a better way than revenge to cope with feelings of betrayal. Maybe help him see where the pain is coming from...that it isn't the specific thing his sister did, but that she's betrayed him, that is making him angry.</p><p></p><p>And that betrayal piece...Maya Angelou writes that when someone tells us who they are?</p><p></p><p>We need to believe them the first time.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I think "no." If your son wants her things out of his closet, try to find somewhere else for them, but other than to help your son learn how to understand the hurt beneath the anger at his sister's betrayal, I would stay out of it.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I think that was very good, for you to have done that.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 639608, member: 17461"] I say no. You could tell difficult child these kinds of things are going to come up throughout his life, and that now is a good time for him to learn how to understand his own reactions, and to learn a better way than revenge to cope with feelings of betrayal. Maybe help him see where the pain is coming from...that it isn't the specific thing his sister did, but that she's betrayed him, that is making him angry. And that betrayal piece...Maya Angelou writes that when someone tells us who they are? We need to believe them the first time. I think "no." If your son wants her things out of his closet, try to find somewhere else for them, but other than to help your son learn how to understand the hurt beneath the anger at his sister's betrayal, I would stay out of it. I think that was very good, for you to have done that. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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