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Three girls of my own and a homeless teen
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 752788" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>Does your husband help out with the girl and extra work? Daughter? Do they?</p><p></p><p>Sorry, but if they would hate you for letting a stranger go into foster care, a house set up for these situations, then you have very severe issues in your relationships with your husband and daughter. This is them forcing you into a very serious decision that you don't want. That is a toxic dynamic in your family.</p><p></p><p>Does your husband have unhealthy feelings for this girl? He sounds like the narcicist, not you. This is not good. Why does he want her there so badly? Red flag to me.</p><p></p><p>Until you work on your own family dynamics, you can't help anyone. If it were me, I would not do it. And I would go to counseling myself if nobody would go with me. You are a person, not a doormat your needs matter. If your husband would leave you over this, your marriage is over anyway and not sure that is a bad thing.</p><p></p><p>God bless you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 752788, member: 23706"] Does your husband help out with the girl and extra work? Daughter? Do they? Sorry, but if they would hate you for letting a stranger go into foster care, a house set up for these situations, then you have very severe issues in your relationships with your husband and daughter. This is them forcing you into a very serious decision that you don't want. That is a toxic dynamic in your family. Does your husband have unhealthy feelings for this girl? He sounds like the narcicist, not you. This is not good. Why does he want her there so badly? Red flag to me. Until you work on your own family dynamics, you can't help anyone. If it were me, I would not do it. And I would go to counseling myself if nobody would go with me. You are a person, not a doormat your needs matter. If your husband would leave you over this, your marriage is over anyway and not sure that is a bad thing. God bless you. [/QUOTE]
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