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Three months strong and back to square one - I don't know what to do.
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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 575838" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Don't be hard on yourself HHE, most of us here go far down the road of enabling our kids, especially one's as young as yours. Of course you wanted him to have a better life and of course you did everything to help him. We parents have a very high threshold on hope. I'm glad you opted out of the loan. I'm glad you want to sell your house and get a condo, perhaps get a one bedroom, then no choice if he wants to live with you, no room. You have the right to have strong boundaries in your home, you have the right to say as long as he doesn't abide by your rules (no substance abuse, respect, having a job, going to school, helping around the house, etc) he can't live there. Go get some support for YOU, take care of YOU now, it's time to let him go and focus on yourself. I know it's hard, just take one step at a time going forward putting yourself first.............(((HUGS))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 575838, member: 13542"] Don't be hard on yourself HHE, most of us here go far down the road of enabling our kids, especially one's as young as yours. Of course you wanted him to have a better life and of course you did everything to help him. We parents have a very high threshold on hope. I'm glad you opted out of the loan. I'm glad you want to sell your house and get a condo, perhaps get a one bedroom, then no choice if he wants to live with you, no room. You have the right to have strong boundaries in your home, you have the right to say as long as he doesn't abide by your rules (no substance abuse, respect, having a job, going to school, helping around the house, etc) he can't live there. Go get some support for YOU, take care of YOU now, it's time to let him go and focus on yourself. I know it's hard, just take one step at a time going forward putting yourself first.............(((HUGS)))) [/QUOTE]
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