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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 757066" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p><em>Thank you all for your powerful words of wisdom.</em></p><p><em>JayPee, I have studied that 'detatch with love' list inside out upside down. I do good with it most days but lost it at Easter. My daughter came over looking like she has not taken a bath in a while. That made me frustrated. I counted all the showers she has access to even while on quaritine and the answer is 6, yes 6 showers and she is working from home. NO excuse not to shower and on Easter.</em></p><p><em>RN, Thank for reminding me that I am human and 'it is what it is' is what I need to think about to remain peaceful.</em></p><p><em>Crayola13, I tell her she matters all the time. They have been together around 9 or 10 years. She has kicked him out many time but he ends up there again. He has bought her an engagement ring that she wears sometimes but knows deep down that he is not right for her. She loves him but not in the right way. I think she is lazy and has become fat, she is depressed because she thinks she is fat and what does the boyfriend do? Brings home tons of her favorite ice cream.</em></p><p><em>BusynMember, Thank you for your love and prayers I sure need them. I really believe the right partner will bring the best out of a person, but as I know that is not for me to decide. Even though I tell my daughter he is bad news for her, she agrees and says 'I know mom' and continues with him.</em></p><p><em>KSM Good point to apolgize for stepping out of bounds with her. I did already right afterwards, hugged and kissed her and told her how much I love her.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>Just typing from the lower part of my brain but will feel good afterwards.</em></p><p><em>How is the 'H' is she going to go over to our home and not shower and go places with us smelling bad? She asked me if she stank and I said yes. How hard is it to get into a shower and take a bath? When she was growing up she showered everyday. How can she sleep with herself at night not bathing regularly? How can she feel comfortable in her skin? What is so hard about taking a bath or shower? What can be taking so much time out of the day where you can't get in and wash your stank ass.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em></em></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 757066, member: 22416"] [I]Thank you all for your powerful words of wisdom. JayPee, I have studied that 'detatch with love' list inside out upside down. I do good with it most days but lost it at Easter. My daughter came over looking like she has not taken a bath in a while. That made me frustrated. I counted all the showers she has access to even while on quaritine and the answer is 6, yes 6 showers and she is working from home. NO excuse not to shower and on Easter. RN, Thank for reminding me that I am human and 'it is what it is' is what I need to think about to remain peaceful. Crayola13, I tell her she matters all the time. They have been together around 9 or 10 years. She has kicked him out many time but he ends up there again. He has bought her an engagement ring that she wears sometimes but knows deep down that he is not right for her. She loves him but not in the right way. I think she is lazy and has become fat, she is depressed because she thinks she is fat and what does the boyfriend do? Brings home tons of her favorite ice cream. BusynMember, Thank you for your love and prayers I sure need them. I really believe the right partner will bring the best out of a person, but as I know that is not for me to decide. Even though I tell my daughter he is bad news for her, she agrees and says 'I know mom' and continues with him. KSM Good point to apolgize for stepping out of bounds with her. I did already right afterwards, hugged and kissed her and told her how much I love her. Just typing from the lower part of my brain but will feel good afterwards. How is the 'H' is she going to go over to our home and not shower and go places with us smelling bad? She asked me if she stank and I said yes. How hard is it to get into a shower and take a bath? When she was growing up she showered everyday. How can she sleep with herself at night not bathing regularly? How can she feel comfortable in her skin? What is so hard about taking a bath or shower? What can be taking so much time out of the day where you can't get in and wash your stank ass. [/I] [/QUOTE]
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