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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 402829" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>Hey,</p><p> </p><p>how are you and welcome by the way i've been sooo wrapped up in my own extended difficult child drama lol. thanks for the support by the way it's appreciated. i haven't kept up with everyone else's stuff.</p><p> </p><p>so, are you guys newly divorced or within 4 years? sounds like you two or at least dad still has alot of junk. your difficult child is probably picking up on that also. I have found thru the ten years and might i add WONDERFUL years of divorce difficult child has purposely done things to make dad and i have to talk EVEN IF THEY WERE NEGATIVE. not sure this is what's going on, yet i bet he's feeling it somehow.</p><p> </p><p>it's sad yet true i go thru same, and i do make sure difficult child has the homework done before she goes. i do think at ten they need reminders. i mean their ten and let's face it they have junk our kids. so yea i do remind. yet what ive found helfpul is to make up a simple schedule and break down the assignment on day one that it's given. than tape that list to their room wall and also put it in hw folder as well so ea night he can do it.</p><p> </p><p>you probably need your break and punishing him with hey do your hw or dont go to dad's wont' fly i've tried that too. yet i'd tell him it either gets done or you will be up late sunday night when you return. i wouldn't bother with dad. it's sad i know i do have same yet that's why we divorced them their never going to be the men we want them to be let's face it lol. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p> </p><p>so....... what's up medically with him? yea i dont' blame you i'd wanna know too. especially since he's being a real hypocondriac can't spell about it. hmm how could you even go about that?? I don't know without dragging yourself through another legal thing</p><p> </p><p>by the way it's never easy yet if you do it well and it's for the right reasons divorce can be amazing for all <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> kids shouldnt' live in craziness so good for you!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 402829, member: 4514"] Hey, how are you and welcome by the way i've been sooo wrapped up in my own extended difficult child drama lol. thanks for the support by the way it's appreciated. i haven't kept up with everyone else's stuff. so, are you guys newly divorced or within 4 years? sounds like you two or at least dad still has alot of junk. your difficult child is probably picking up on that also. I have found thru the ten years and might i add WONDERFUL years of divorce difficult child has purposely done things to make dad and i have to talk EVEN IF THEY WERE NEGATIVE. not sure this is what's going on, yet i bet he's feeling it somehow. it's sad yet true i go thru same, and i do make sure difficult child has the homework done before she goes. i do think at ten they need reminders. i mean their ten and let's face it they have junk our kids. so yea i do remind. yet what ive found helfpul is to make up a simple schedule and break down the assignment on day one that it's given. than tape that list to their room wall and also put it in hw folder as well so ea night he can do it. you probably need your break and punishing him with hey do your hw or dont go to dad's wont' fly i've tried that too. yet i'd tell him it either gets done or you will be up late sunday night when you return. i wouldn't bother with dad. it's sad i know i do have same yet that's why we divorced them their never going to be the men we want them to be let's face it lol. :) so....... what's up medically with him? yea i dont' blame you i'd wanna know too. especially since he's being a real hypocondriac can't spell about it. hmm how could you even go about that?? I don't know without dragging yourself through another legal thing by the way it's never easy yet if you do it well and it's for the right reasons divorce can be amazing for all :) kids shouldnt' live in craziness so good for you!! [/QUOTE]
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