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Tired of crying and having swollen eyes everyday
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 743605" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>The devil, which I don't believe in but its fine if you do is in your daughter at least in spirit. I do think praying helps us cope! I do strongly feel there is a higher power!</p><p></p><p>But I dont think anything will fix your daughter. She does not appear to have a normal heart or goodness in her. Some people dont and its best to stay away. Things that soften most hearts like babies dont move your daughter.</p><p></p><p>I dont think the drugs did this. Lots of others take drugs but they dont do what your daugjter did and does to hurt people that way. Your daughter in my opinion is different than even other drug addicts, sober or not.</p><p></p><p>I think you need to protect yourself and stay far from your daughter.</p><p></p><p>I am very sorry. I know a very nice man who has a daughter like yours. He has one very nice high achieving daughter too. Who knows why this happens? The man and his wife havent seen this dangerous daughter in years. They dont want to. She was once arrested for beating up her mother. Her diagnosis was ASPD.</p><p></p><p>I think Smithsmom had some very good ideas. We stand with you. But I agree that your changing and accepting is the key to happuness. You have to accept that you can not change the situation. Then move on with the heavy help of therapy/AA or both. NAMI too is good. NAMI may help you to understand ASPD, what they know and what they recommend you do. NAMI is The National Alliance for the Mentally Ill and they help family members of the person to cope.</p><p></p><p>You seem to be screaming out for help and there IS help for you. Please grab onto help's hand and accept what is there for you. Try to help yourself rather than taking on the futile task of changing your daughter or saving your granddaughter. Right now it is unsafe to do either and your life is precious and you matter!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 743605, member: 1550"] The devil, which I don't believe in but its fine if you do is in your daughter at least in spirit. I do think praying helps us cope! I do strongly feel there is a higher power! But I dont think anything will fix your daughter. She does not appear to have a normal heart or goodness in her. Some people dont and its best to stay away. Things that soften most hearts like babies dont move your daughter. I dont think the drugs did this. Lots of others take drugs but they dont do what your daugjter did and does to hurt people that way. Your daughter in my opinion is different than even other drug addicts, sober or not. I think you need to protect yourself and stay far from your daughter. I am very sorry. I know a very nice man who has a daughter like yours. He has one very nice high achieving daughter too. Who knows why this happens? The man and his wife havent seen this dangerous daughter in years. They dont want to. She was once arrested for beating up her mother. Her diagnosis was ASPD. I think Smithsmom had some very good ideas. We stand with you. But I agree that your changing and accepting is the key to happuness. You have to accept that you can not change the situation. Then move on with the heavy help of therapy/AA or both. NAMI too is good. NAMI may help you to understand ASPD, what they know and what they recommend you do. NAMI is The National Alliance for the Mentally Ill and they help family members of the person to cope. You seem to be screaming out for help and there IS help for you. Please grab onto help's hand and accept what is there for you. Try to help yourself rather than taking on the futile task of changing your daughter or saving your granddaughter. Right now it is unsafe to do either and your life is precious and you matter! [/QUOTE]
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