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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 645903" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>So, on the issue of grandchild vulnerability Tish, how do you function around that?</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p><p></p><p>Yet another difference between those with difficult child kids and those with PCs. Their grandchildren are safe.</p><p></p><p>What a complex mess all this is. No wonder we can't face and name it.</p><p></p><p>Another: We spent so much on the costs of day to day living for both our difficult child kids that there was a sense of resentment toward spending more on the normal special fun things we might have done for the grandchildren. When I realized that, I began paying for lessons in areas they chose for the two oldest granddaughters. </p><p></p><p>My gift, mine and husband's.</p><p></p><p>Something right and positive to do in the face of the unending negativity. It turned out then that, though I had paid for the lessons, difficult child daughter would not be bothered getting them to and from them!</p><p></p><p>And I got the distinct impression that difficult child daughter resented my sort of going over her head or discounting her in favor of her children or something like that.</p><p></p><p>Some thing that feels that weird feeling way things do feel with difficult children.</p><p></p><p>difficult child adults are very self centered.</p><p></p><p>Thank everything that is that this site is anonymous.</p><p></p><p>I feel like a really nasty person for confessing to the way I see things.</p><p></p><p>(What kind of mother...?)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 645903, member: 17461"] So, on the issue of grandchild vulnerability Tish, how do you function around that? Cedar Yet another difference between those with difficult child kids and those with PCs. Their grandchildren are safe. What a complex mess all this is. No wonder we can't face and name it. Another: We spent so much on the costs of day to day living for both our difficult child kids that there was a sense of resentment toward spending more on the normal special fun things we might have done for the grandchildren. When I realized that, I began paying for lessons in areas they chose for the two oldest granddaughters. My gift, mine and husband's. Something right and positive to do in the face of the unending negativity. It turned out then that, though I had paid for the lessons, difficult child daughter would not be bothered getting them to and from them! And I got the distinct impression that difficult child daughter resented my sort of going over her head or discounting her in favor of her children or something like that. Some thing that feels that weird feeling way things do feel with difficult children. difficult child adults are very self centered. Thank everything that is that this site is anonymous. I feel like a really nasty person for confessing to the way I see things. (What kind of mother...?) [/QUOTE]
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