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<blockquote data-quote="so ready to live" data-source="post: 682421" data-attributes="member: 20054"><p>thank you Tanya, this has proven true these weeks. DS shows up again this past wk twice, once at my husband's work saying he was near there at car insurance place paying his bill (with what we wonder)??? and then again at our home (930pm) this wkend to "get his mail". My husband met him on porch, did not invite in, I remained in house. The sound of his truck here makes me feel physically ill and shaky, I so associate it with chaos and pain. DS drove here (he had gas) someone was in truck (he has companion-?ex girlfriend?) he was smoking (has $ for cigs.) he had a soda ($for drinks) he also still has dog and she looked fine and fed. He went on and on (way too much conversation to be not impaired by something) and way too calm in comparison to his normal 2 word, angry tirades. He told husband all about multiple places he had found to rent, but most had credit cks (go figure) and he has bad credit of course. Also most cost 600+ a month. He certainly was fishing for an "I'll be glad to pay security and first mo. rent for you" but he didn't get that response. He asked if we had heard from disability and we said he should look through mail (sitting here x 2 wk) He was given a form to fill out when he moved out but we're sure it was too much bother for him. He also has name of social worker who has started his case twice for vocational training (both times he began but then quit due to "he had something better" in mind) He doesn't want it unless it comes easy...maybe it will cross his mind to get a job. Although any with drug test will disqualify, won't it? A reasonable person would knock on every door asking for employ so they didn't live in a flophouse with no heat or electric, right?</p><p> BUT, this is no reasonable person--this is alcohol, drugs, mental illness...and this is my son.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="so ready to live, post: 682421, member: 20054"] thank you Tanya, this has proven true these weeks. DS shows up again this past wk twice, once at my husband's work saying he was near there at car insurance place paying his bill (with what we wonder)??? and then again at our home (930pm) this wkend to "get his mail". My husband met him on porch, did not invite in, I remained in house. The sound of his truck here makes me feel physically ill and shaky, I so associate it with chaos and pain. DS drove here (he had gas) someone was in truck (he has companion-?ex girlfriend?) he was smoking (has $ for cigs.) he had a soda ($for drinks) he also still has dog and she looked fine and fed. He went on and on (way too much conversation to be not impaired by something) and way too calm in comparison to his normal 2 word, angry tirades. He told husband all about multiple places he had found to rent, but most had credit cks (go figure) and he has bad credit of course. Also most cost 600+ a month. He certainly was fishing for an "I'll be glad to pay security and first mo. rent for you" but he didn't get that response. He asked if we had heard from disability and we said he should look through mail (sitting here x 2 wk) He was given a form to fill out when he moved out but we're sure it was too much bother for him. He also has name of social worker who has started his case twice for vocational training (both times he began but then quit due to "he had something better" in mind) He doesn't want it unless it comes easy...maybe it will cross his mind to get a job. Although any with drug test will disqualify, won't it? A reasonable person would knock on every door asking for employ so they didn't live in a flophouse with no heat or electric, right? BUT, this is no reasonable person--this is alcohol, drugs, mental illness...and this is my son. [/QUOTE]
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