U,
I am sorry you are having to sift through the sands of a difficult child. I'm doing similar work here - except I have just flat out stopped talking to my son. Tonight I decided that if I talk, or open my mouth - I get yelled at for helping soooo I'm not helping, not talking, not suggesting, not bailing him out of things he's broken today - not yelling about the plants he ripped leaves off of, not screaming about using dow scrubbing bubbles on my maple dining room claw foot table that left white clouds, not accusing because my photo albums are missing huge amounts of pictures, not crying because the only room in the house with nice carpet left - he's eating in, or about his stealing his dad's biker magazines, or using 2 down filled pillow toppers for jumping on - without permission, or using my headphones and breaking the plastic piece, or grounding grapes into the kitchen floor, or using a full cup of laundry detergent to wash 1 pair of jeans, .......
Gosh you're right - talking about it does make you feel better. Thanks
Sorry again you are having such a bad night - sometimes when they figure out which friends ARE leaches it takes a while because then they HAVE to admit they were....wwwwww......wrrrrrr. wrong. And we can't have that.
Hugs
Star
