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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 764600" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p><em>Nomad Thank you for your insight and note.</em></p><p><em>My husband has some Dr appointments set up. I pray that I can find a decent counselor because in the past I have experienced some rotten ones that did not help. I have been through many counselors with my daughter and the amount of money I have spent is unreal. I went to a self help bipolar support group which helped us the most. It was lead by a woman that was bipolar and she was great. Wish I could find a self help marriage group.</em></p><p><em>Since my husband grew up around mean bipolar people, he has way more tolerance to it than I have. I am done with them and God knows I have put in my time.</em></p><p><em>My husband and I did fun things together before this latest blow up. I really don't even want to go anywhere with him. His behavior actually makes me sink and the dread I feel with his family member coming into our home in March is huge. Plus him financing all this has Pis@ed me off no to end.</em></p><p><em>The amount of betrayal I feel is deep and I am still trying to carry on moving ahead doing what I feel is right. The family member that is coming has talked down to my husband and me several times and has a air of 'better than thou'. Why on earth is our family finances supporting this stupid stuff. Not only is it harming me spiritually but financially too. Nothing makes sense about this at all NOTHING. </em></p><p><em>Even though my daughter is doing better, it is better than years ago but it is not that good. She still lies and acts secretive. There is improvement here and there and then backwards two steps. I am very tired of all the unmedicated bipolar people that I have had to deal with I am tired and DONE. As I get older I just want peace, a quiet peaceful home and not anyone dragging unmedicated bipolar people into our home. </em></p><p><em>I never thought I would feel so lost, angry and defeated. It is not healthy to feel such strong negative emotions. The anguish that my husbands family has caused us has been discussed at length between my husband and me for years and my husband feels the same way as I do, or so he says. Was he lying to me? WTH.</em></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 764600, member: 22416"] [I]Nomad Thank you for your insight and note. My husband has some Dr appointments set up. I pray that I can find a decent counselor because in the past I have experienced some rotten ones that did not help. I have been through many counselors with my daughter and the amount of money I have spent is unreal. I went to a self help bipolar support group which helped us the most. It was lead by a woman that was bipolar and she was great. Wish I could find a self help marriage group. Since my husband grew up around mean bipolar people, he has way more tolerance to it than I have. I am done with them and God knows I have put in my time. My husband and I did fun things together before this latest blow up. I really don't even want to go anywhere with him. His behavior actually makes me sink and the dread I feel with his family member coming into our home in March is huge. Plus him financing all this has Pis@ed me off no to end. The amount of betrayal I feel is deep and I am still trying to carry on moving ahead doing what I feel is right. The family member that is coming has talked down to my husband and me several times and has a air of 'better than thou'. Why on earth is our family finances supporting this stupid stuff. Not only is it harming me spiritually but financially too. Nothing makes sense about this at all NOTHING. Even though my daughter is doing better, it is better than years ago but it is not that good. She still lies and acts secretive. There is improvement here and there and then backwards two steps. I am very tired of all the unmedicated bipolar people that I have had to deal with I am tired and DONE. As I get older I just want peace, a quiet peaceful home and not anyone dragging unmedicated bipolar people into our home. I never thought I would feel so lost, angry and defeated. It is not healthy to feel such strong negative emotions. The anguish that my husbands family has caused us has been discussed at length between my husband and me for years and my husband feels the same way as I do, or so he says. Was he lying to me? WTH.[/I] [/QUOTE]
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