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<blockquote data-quote="BloodiedButUnbowed" data-source="post: 716440" data-attributes="member: 13303"><p>Would your daughter be willing to tell you everything she knows? Do you think Ferb has taken her into his confidence? </p><p></p><p>Seems like the healthiest thing you could do from an Al-Anon perspective is to tell Ferb that you know that she has been in your home, that it is unacceptable, and that if it happens again he is being kicked out. </p><p></p><p>But I know that's a lot to ask and would probably push him even further into her orbit.</p><p></p><p>But at the same time, you really can't control anything but your own serenity and happiness. You already lack control over Ferb's actions, or anyone's.</p><p></p><p>Maybe letting him go to learn some life lessons on his own is actually what he needs most?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BloodiedButUnbowed, post: 716440, member: 13303"] Would your daughter be willing to tell you everything she knows? Do you think Ferb has taken her into his confidence? Seems like the healthiest thing you could do from an Al-Anon perspective is to tell Ferb that you know that she has been in your home, that it is unacceptable, and that if it happens again he is being kicked out. But I know that's a lot to ask and would probably push him even further into her orbit. But at the same time, you really can't control anything but your own serenity and happiness. You already lack control over Ferb's actions, or anyone's. Maybe letting him go to learn some life lessons on his own is actually what he needs most? [/QUOTE]
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