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Two doctor appts in one day, meltdown and rough going
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<blockquote data-quote="Ktllc" data-source="post: 535623" data-attributes="member: 11847"><p>Gosh... I don't have any experience with teens, but I know for a fact that with V's issues, I would never be able to say without sending his brain in a scarre/panic/goofy/defiant mode. Just too much at once.</p><p>Of course I don't know the whole story, but I would not flood him with all the remarks all at once. </p><p>For technicallity (washing hands, wiping toilet, etc), which I agree with you are no reasons to move out, have you been able to work a plan with him such as little post it to temind him? Would he accept to brainstorm with you at all and com up with an acceptable solution?</p><p>I can so see those kind of issues piling up on V when he gets older. Already he forgets everything and then forgets to look at his visual reminders! (time to move them and be smarter on where I put them maybe...). I have myself a hard time to take all of it with a smile, so I am not critisizing but it might be very well be harder for your difficult child than it appears. </p><p>on the other hand, it is quite nice that both Docs were able to see what you are dealing with. I feel for you and wish there were some obvious and simple fix...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ktllc, post: 535623, member: 11847"] Gosh... I don't have any experience with teens, but I know for a fact that with V's issues, I would never be able to say without sending his brain in a scarre/panic/goofy/defiant mode. Just too much at once. Of course I don't know the whole story, but I would not flood him with all the remarks all at once. For technicallity (washing hands, wiping toilet, etc), which I agree with you are no reasons to move out, have you been able to work a plan with him such as little post it to temind him? Would he accept to brainstorm with you at all and com up with an acceptable solution? I can so see those kind of issues piling up on V when he gets older. Already he forgets everything and then forgets to look at his visual reminders! (time to move them and be smarter on where I put them maybe...). I have myself a hard time to take all of it with a smile, so I am not critisizing but it might be very well be harder for your difficult child than it appears. on the other hand, it is quite nice that both Docs were able to see what you are dealing with. I feel for you and wish there were some obvious and simple fix... [/QUOTE]
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