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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 408565" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>It has to be super hard for you. Regardless of how old they are, they are still our babies deep in our hearts. Emailing his therapist is a good step, in my opinion. He will be able to talk it out with her. I hope he can give you some info to putyour mind at ease, but if he cannot maybe it owuld be good to go to a meeting (alanon or narcanon). As awesome as the board it, having people there in real life can also be helpful. They can also help you figure out if you should ask more questions or not.</p><p> </p><p>Have you talked to a therapist of your own? That might also be helpful. I wrestle with this with my gfgbro - worry what he is doing, if his daughter is okay, etc... but I cannot communicate at all with him so I try to let the thoughts occur and then let them go. If I struggle to keep them from happening they get a lot worse so I acknowledge them and then it is easier to live with no info.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 408565, member: 1233"] It has to be super hard for you. Regardless of how old they are, they are still our babies deep in our hearts. Emailing his therapist is a good step, in my opinion. He will be able to talk it out with her. I hope he can give you some info to putyour mind at ease, but if he cannot maybe it owuld be good to go to a meeting (alanon or narcanon). As awesome as the board it, having people there in real life can also be helpful. They can also help you figure out if you should ask more questions or not. Have you talked to a therapist of your own? That might also be helpful. I wrestle with this with my gfgbro - worry what he is doing, if his daughter is okay, etc... but I cannot communicate at all with him so I try to let the thoughts occur and then let them go. If I struggle to keep them from happening they get a lot worse so I acknowledge them and then it is easier to live with no info. [/QUOTE]
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